Podcast

Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys

Author: Truly Eleanor Intuitive Dating Coach
Feed episode count: 64
Official site: https://stopchasingunavailableguys.com
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Summary

Welcome to the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. This is the show for single women over 40 who are done wasting time on emotionally unavailable guys and ready for real, healthy love. I’m Truly Eleanor, an intuitive dating coach with over 17 years of experience, and I help women stop chasing, stop doubting, and start choosing relationships that actually feel good. If you’ve ever thought: “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of guy?” “Why does healthy love feel unfamiliar?” “Why does dating feel harder the moment I start to care?” You’re in the right place. This podcast is where emotional healing meets real-world dating, so you can finally trust yourself, spot red flags early, and move toward love that’s calm, mutual, and deeply connected. And to get started, download my free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 (+ How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast) at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps Love is closer than you think. Let’s get started.

Episodes

May 25, 2026 · not_requested

Ep #63 From Self-Abandonment to Self-Trust: How to Break the Unavailable Love Pattern After 40

Duration seconds: 1922
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May 18, 2026 · not_requested

Ep #62: Is That Your Gut or Your Fear? A Body-Based Guide for Women Dating After 40

Duration seconds: 764
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May 11, 2026 · not_requested

Ep #61 Why Intuitive Women Still Attract Emotionally Unavailable Men After 40

Duration seconds: 1081
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Apr 27, 2026 · not_requested

Ep #60 The Identity Shift That Changes Everything About How You Date

Duration seconds: 1058
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Apr 20, 2026 · not_requested

Ep #59 Ready for Love After 40? Or Just Waiting to Feel Ready?

Duration seconds: 774
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Apr 13, 2026 · not_requested

Ep #58 Dating After 40: The Subtle Mistake That Keeps Love at a Distance

Duration seconds: 1100
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Mar 30, 2026 · not_requested

Ep #57 Dating After 40: The Hidden Reason You Never Feel Ready for Love

Duration seconds: 1009
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Mar 23, 2026 · not_requested

Ep #56 Dating After 40: How to Stay Open and Still Protect Your Heart

Duration seconds: 1116
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Mar 16, 2026 · not_requested

Ep #55 Emotional Safety Is the New Chemistry in Dating After 40

Duration seconds: 1210
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Mar 9, 2026 · not_requested

Ep #54 Why You Pull Away From Good Guys (Dating After 40 Pattern Explained)

Duration seconds: 1157
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Mar 2, 2026 · not_requested

Ep#53 Dating After 40: How to Tell the Difference Between Intuition + Fear

Duration seconds: 1166
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Feb 23, 2026 · not_requested

Ep #52 What to Do When You Like Him and Anxiety Shows Up

Duration seconds: 1037
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Feb 16, 2026 · not_requested

Ep #51 Stop Proving Your Worth in Dating: Choose Love That Chooses You

Duration seconds: 875
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Feb 9, 2026 · not_requested

Episode #50 Stop Overgiving in Dating: How to Finally Receive Love After 40

Duration seconds: 1085
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Feb 2, 2026 · not_requested

EP #49 Why Healthy Love Feels Unfamiliar: And Why That’s Not a Red Flag

Duration seconds: 1032
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Dec 1, 2025 · not_requested

Episode #48 Dating After 40? 3 Steps To Break Old Patterns And Attract Healthy Love

Duration seconds: 961
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Nov 24, 2025 · not_requested

Episode #47 Dating Over 40? Here’s How to Silence the Self-Doubt

Duration seconds: 1057
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Nov 3, 2025 · not_requested

Episode #44 Dating in Your 40s: How to Survive the Emotional Rollercoaster

Duration seconds: 1089
Source: https://trulyeleanor.com/datingrollercoaster

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Oct 6, 2025 · not_requested

Episode #40 The Hidden Blocks Keeping You from Lasting Love After 40

Duration seconds: 1283
Source: https://trulyeleanor.com/hiddenblocks

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May 12, 2025 · not_requested

Episode #26 Mr. Right Awaits: Tapping into Your Inner Wisdom

Duration seconds: 1449
Source: https://trulyeleanor.com/mr-right-awaits-tapping-into-your-inner-wisdom/

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May 5, 2025 · not_requested

Episode #25 Trust Your Intuition: The Key to Finding Love After 40

Duration seconds: 1223
Source: https://trulyeleanor.com/why-you-keep-falling-for-the-same-guy-even-when-he-seems-different/

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Mar 24, 2025 · not_requested

Episode #21 Best Dating Advice for Women Over 40 -Part 3: Confront Your Fears

Duration seconds: 1735
Source: https://trulyeleanor.com/best-dating-advice-for-women-over-40-part-3-confront-your-fears/

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Mar 3, 2025 · not_requested

Episode #18 How To Recognize Unavailable Guys: Red Flags to Watch Out For

Duration seconds: 1301
Source: https://trulyeleanor.com/how-to-recognize-mr-unavailable-red-flags-to-watch-out-for/

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Oct 28, 2024 · not_requested

Episode #4 Why Guys Keep Ghosting

Duration seconds: 1193
Source: https://trulyeleanor.com/why-he-keeps-ghosting-the-top-3-dating-mistakes-women-over-40-make/

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Oct 21, 2024 · not_requested

Episode #2 A Shero's Journey To Lasting Love

Duration seconds: 1041
Source: https://trulyeleanor.com/a-healing-journey-to-lasting-love/

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