{"podcast":{"title":"Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys","slug":"stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","podcast_index_feed_id":7038847,"rss_url":"https://api.riverside.fm/hosting/hAxSSQGn.rss/","website_url":"https://stopchasingunavailableguys.com","image_url":"https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fca2d947-a4ec-496b-976e-653f7873d367/cEEtMfp5zENmRKvnAGDcY8B7.jpg","author":"Truly Eleanor Intuitive Dating Coach","episode_count":64,"summary":"Welcome to the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. This is the show for single women over 40 who are done wasting time on emotionally unavailable guys and ready for real, healthy love. I’m Truly Eleanor, an intuitive dating coach with over 17 years of experience, and I help women stop chasing, stop doubting, and start choosing relationships that actually feel good. If you’ve ever thought: “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of guy?” “Why does healthy love feel unfamiliar?” “Why does dating feel harder the moment I start to care?” You’re in the right place. This podcast is where emotional healing meets real-world dating, so you can finally trust yourself, spot red flags early, and move toward love that’s calm, mutual, and deeply connected. And to get started, download my free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 (+ How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast) at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps Love is closer than you think. 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This override is the central reason you keep ending up in the same place, with the same guy, in a different sweater. In this Season 6 premiere of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, I'm talking about what's really going on when you're dating after 40, doing all the work, and still finding yourself here again. I share the story of being a trained Reiki practitioner and professional intuitive who was still overriding her own gut signals in dating. Alarm bells going off. Clear, calm inner wisdom saying no . And still choosing the intensity, the spark, and the story I told myself about why it must be destiny. Sound familiar? What's Inside This Episode: Why you can know all your patterns and still end up choosing the same guy The surprising way being highly intuitive can work against you in dating Why you stopped trusting yourself in love, and what it looks like to get that back Why your intuition was never the problem, and what you were doing with it instead This is Season 6: the intuition season. It's about coming home to yourself so completely that unavailable love loses its pull. 🎧 Listen now and find out what's really been getting in your way. If you're dating after 40 and ready to stop wasting time on the wrong guys, grab my free guide to the top dating apps and how to spot unavailable men fast. https://learn.trulyeleanor.com/datingapps Ready to go deeper? The Intuitive Path to Love course is where you do the actual practices alongside each episode. Four audio modules, seven chakra meditations, and a real framework for learning what your yes and no feel like in your body. 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