{"podcast":{"title":"Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys","slug":"stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","podcast_index_feed_id":7038847,"rss_url":"https://api.riverside.fm/hosting/hAxSSQGn.rss/","website_url":"https://stopchasingunavailableguys.com","image_url":"https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fca2d947-a4ec-496b-976e-653f7873d367/cEEtMfp5zENmRKvnAGDcY8B7.jpg","author":"Truly Eleanor Intuitive Dating Coach","episode_count":64,"summary":"Welcome to the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. This is the show for single women over 40 who are done wasting time on emotionally unavailable guys and ready for real, healthy love. I’m Truly Eleanor, an intuitive dating coach with over 17 years of experience, and I help women stop chasing, stop doubting, and start choosing relationships that actually feel good. If you’ve ever thought: “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of guy?” “Why does healthy love feel unfamiliar?” “Why does dating feel harder the moment I start to care?” You’re in the right place. This podcast is where emotional healing meets real-world dating, so you can finally trust yourself, spot red flags early, and move toward love that’s calm, mutual, and deeply connected. And to get started, download my free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 (+ How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast) at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps Love is closer than you think. Let’s get started.","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847"},"episode":{"title":"Ep #59 Ready for Love After 40? Or Just Waiting to Feel Ready?","slug":"ep-59-ready-for-love-after-40-or-just-waiting-to-feel-ready","published_at":"2026-04-20T19:20:16+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847/ep-59-ready-for-love-after-40-or-just-waiting-to-feel-ready","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/b56eb8636919eb89e5b20d2800c795ba96505becc2793d335c1f008b9463924c/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIwZDAyMGFlMC02OTBkLTQ4MWMtOTczMS1mOGM3OWQ4NzcwZjQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmY2EyZDk0Ny1hNGVjLTQ5NmItOTc2ZS02NTNmNzg3M2QzNjciLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2NmUxZTUwYTQ2NGVjODIzY2MzYWZhZTEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjllNjdjNzAxOTE0MmU2NzAzYzcyMGYwL3RydWx5LWVsZWFub3ItY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi00LTIwX18yMS0yMC0xNi5tcDMifQ==.mp3","audio_url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/b56eb8636919eb89e5b20d2800c795ba96505becc2793d335c1f008b9463924c/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIwZDAyMGFlMC02OTBkLTQ4MWMtOTczMS1mOGM3OWQ4NzcwZjQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmY2EyZDk0Ny1hNGVjLTQ5NmItOTc2ZS02NTNmNzg3M2QzNjciLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2NmUxZTUwYTQ2NGVjODIzY2MzYWZhZTEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjllNjdjNzAxOTE0MmU2NzAzYzcyMGYwL3RydWx5LWVsZWFub3ItY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi00LTIwX18yMS0yMC0xNi5tcDMifQ==.mp3","summary":"You're not hiding behind healing anymore. You're not stuck in the waiting room. You're actually at the door. And somehow... you're still not walking through it. Here's a clue that something has quietly shifted. The guys who once had you glued to your phone, analysing every text, every pause, every \"seen at 9pm but no reply until Tuesday\" they're starting to feel exhausting. And the calm, consistent guy who actually shows up? He's starting to feel kind of amazing. That's not a coincidence. That's readiness. And this episode is going to help you recognise it. What's Inside This Episode: ✨ The surprising way all that healing work trips you up on dates ✨ The subtle sign that you're already more ready for healthy love than you've been telling yourself ✨ What changes when you stop waiting to feel perfect and make this one quiet decision instead ✨ The shift that moves you from exhausted longing into something that finally feels calm and possible ✨ What it feels like to be on a date when you're actually ready to receive love If you're ready to trust your intuition and date with clarity and confidence, the Intuitive Path to Love Course is linked below. And grab the free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 + How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast here: https://learn.trulyeleanor.com/datingapps Intuitive Path To Love Course : https://learn.trulyeleanor.com/IPTL You can't make Mr. Unavailable love you, but you can choose someone who does. Love is closer than you think.","meta_description":"You're not hiding behind healing anymore. 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