{"podcast":{"title":"Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys","slug":"stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","podcast_index_feed_id":7038847,"rss_url":"https://api.riverside.fm/hosting/hAxSSQGn.rss/","website_url":"https://stopchasingunavailableguys.com","image_url":"https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fca2d947-a4ec-496b-976e-653f7873d367/cEEtMfp5zENmRKvnAGDcY8B7.jpg","author":"Truly Eleanor Intuitive Dating Coach","episode_count":64,"summary":"Welcome to the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. This is the show for single women over 40 who are done wasting time on emotionally unavailable guys and ready for real, healthy love. I’m Truly Eleanor, an intuitive dating coach with over 17 years of experience, and I help women stop chasing, stop doubting, and start choosing relationships that actually feel good. If you’ve ever thought: “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of guy?” “Why does healthy love feel unfamiliar?” “Why does dating feel harder the moment I start to care?” You’re in the right place. This podcast is where emotional healing meets real-world dating, so you can finally trust yourself, spot red flags early, and move toward love that’s calm, mutual, and deeply connected. And to get started, download my free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 (+ How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast) at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps Love is closer than you think. Let’s get started.","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847"},"episode":{"title":"Episode #50 Stop Overgiving in Dating: How to Finally Receive Love After 40","slug":"episode-50-stop-overgiving-in-dating-how-to-finally-receive-love-after-40","published_at":"2026-02-09T22:03:08+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847/episode-50-stop-overgiving-in-dating-how-to-finally-receive-love-after-40","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/53371538a25fc3b2245c08fd16d3ff27ee5326f3968c4df1a4f142e628101dbc/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI4MTAyNzFjMC1lN2ZhLTRiZDgtYWMyMS1lYzg3OTY4OGE3NzQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmY2EyZDk0Ny1hNGVjLTQ5NmItOTc2ZS02NTNmNzg3M2QzNjciLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2NmUxZTUwYTQ2NGVjODIzY2MzYWZhZTEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjk4YTU5OWMwZWIzYjgyZTdiMjM4OWQwL3RydWx5LWVsZWFub3ItY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi0yLTlfXzIzLTMtOC5tcDMifQ==.mp3","audio_url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/53371538a25fc3b2245c08fd16d3ff27ee5326f3968c4df1a4f142e628101dbc/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI4MTAyNzFjMC1lN2ZhLTRiZDgtYWMyMS1lYzg3OTY4OGE3NzQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmY2EyZDk0Ny1hNGVjLTQ5NmItOTc2ZS02NTNmNzg3M2QzNjciLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2NmUxZTUwYTQ2NGVjODIzY2MzYWZhZTEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjk4YTU5OWMwZWIzYjgyZTdiMjM4OWQwL3RydWx5LWVsZWFub3ItY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi0yLTlfXzIzLTMtOC5tcDMifQ==.mp3","summary":"If you’re dating after 40 and keep finding yourself in the role of emotional caretaker, always understanding, always giving the benefit of the doubt, always staying longer than feels good, this episode is for you. In Episode 50 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast , we’re talking about one of the biggest hidden blocks to healthy love: the emotional caretaker identity . This is the pattern where love gets confused with effort… where overgiving feels like chemistry… and where emotionally unavailable men keep showing up because you’ve been trained to manage, fix, and emotionally hold everyone but yourself. What’s Inside This Episode: The real reason overgiving feels so automatic (and why it has nothing to do with being “needy”) What quietly happens to attraction when you become the emotional manager in dating The surprising truth about why calm, available men can trigger disinterest at first The identity shift that changes everything—from trying to make it work to simply choosing What “receiving love” actually looks and feels like when you’ve spent a lifetime earning it This episode is part of Season 5: Embodiment, Identity & Lasting Love , where we stop trying to date differently and start being someone who dates differently. ✨ Integration prompt from the episode: “Am I relating to him… or managing him?” 🎧 Listen now and begin releasing the belief that love requires effort, fixing, or emotional labour. Magnetic Love Bundle: https://learn.trulyeleanor.com/magneticlove Remember: You can’t make Mr. Unavailable love you, but you can choose someone who does. 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