{"podcast":{"title":"Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys","slug":"stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","podcast_index_feed_id":7038847,"rss_url":"https://api.riverside.fm/hosting/hAxSSQGn.rss/","website_url":"https://stopchasingunavailableguys.com","image_url":"https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fca2d947-a4ec-496b-976e-653f7873d367/cEEtMfp5zENmRKvnAGDcY8B7.jpg","author":"Truly Eleanor Intuitive Dating Coach","episode_count":64,"summary":"Welcome to the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. This is the show for single women over 40 who are done wasting time on emotionally unavailable guys and ready for real, healthy love. I’m Truly Eleanor, an intuitive dating coach with over 17 years of experience, and I help women stop chasing, stop doubting, and start choosing relationships that actually feel good. If you’ve ever thought: “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of guy?” “Why does healthy love feel unfamiliar?” “Why does dating feel harder the moment I start to care?” You’re in the right place. This podcast is where emotional healing meets real-world dating, so you can finally trust yourself, spot red flags early, and move toward love that’s calm, mutual, and deeply connected. And to get started, download my free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 (+ How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast) at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps Love is closer than you think. Let’s get started.","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847"},"episode":{"title":"Episode #21 Best Dating Advice for Women Over 40 -Part 3: Confront Your Fears","slug":"episode-21-best-dating-advice-for-women-over-40-part-3-confront-your-fears","published_at":"2025-03-24T12:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847/episode-21-best-dating-advice-for-women-over-40-part-3-confront-your-fears","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","url":"https://trulyeleanor.com/best-dating-advice-for-women-over-40-part-3-confront-your-fears/","audio_url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/25e8c094801c3f37752f638c0db3114e190d6c2fa4f6cc2bcfa32964b3f7fce8/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIzNzlhOTYyNy01ZjUxLTRlMDMtYjE2Ny0yYzJkODAzN2NhNDciLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmY2EyZDk0Ny1hNGVjLTQ5NmItOTc2ZS02NTNmNzg3M2QzNjciLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2NmUxZTUwYTQ2NGVjODIzY2MzYWZhZTEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mY2EyZDk0Ny1hNGVjLTQ5NmItOTc2ZS02NTNmNzg3M2QzNjcvZXBpc29kZXMvMzc5YTk2MjctNWY1MS00ZTAzLWIxNjctMmMyZDgwMzdjYTQ3L0VsZWFub3ItTWFjRG9uYWxkLVMyLUVwLTktY29udmVydGVkLm1wMyJ9.mp3","summary":"If you’re a woman over 40 looking for Mr. Right, this episode is for you. I’m wrapping up my three-part series on the best dating advice for women over 40, and today we’re diving into the hidden fears, anxieties, and habits that might be holding you back from the love you deserve. As an intuitive dating coach, I’ve worked with countless women (and done this work myself), and I know how powerful it can be to uncover and release these patterns. Let’s get into it. What I cover in this episode: Unpacking your dating fears: Fear of intimacy (being truly seen) Fear of rejection or heartbreak Fear of recreating toxic relationship patterns Fear of being trapped or stuck in the wrong relationship The underlying fear of ending up alone How to confront your fears: The “Then what?” exercise to explore and release fears layer by layer Using emotional release techniques like tapping to clear emotional charges Turning your fears into new intentions that empower your dating journey The 3 most common habits that hold you back: Overthinking: Letting your mind take over instead of trusting your intuition. Dismissing good matches too quickly: Judging potential partners based on surface-level details. Playing it safe: Avoiding emotional vulnerability to protect yourself, which can prevent genuine connection. Facing your fears and breaking free from unhelpful dating habits is essential to finding real, meaningful love. The goal isn’t to eliminate fear entirely—it’s to loosen its grip so it no longer controls your dating decisions. By building self-awareness, you can date with more clarity, confidence, and authenticity. If this episode resonated with you, be sure to check out parts one and two of this series. And if you’re ready for deeper support on your dating journey, reach out—I’d love t…","meta_description":"If you’re a woman over 40 looking for Mr. Right, this episode is for you. 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