{"podcast":{"title":"Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys","slug":"stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","podcast_index_feed_id":7038847,"rss_url":"https://api.riverside.fm/hosting/hAxSSQGn.rss/","website_url":"https://stopchasingunavailableguys.com","image_url":"https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fca2d947-a4ec-496b-976e-653f7873d367/cEEtMfp5zENmRKvnAGDcY8B7.jpg","author":"Truly Eleanor Intuitive Dating Coach","episode_count":64,"summary":"Welcome to the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. This is the show for single women over 40 who are done wasting time on emotionally unavailable guys and ready for real, healthy love. I’m Truly Eleanor, an intuitive dating coach with over 17 years of experience, and I help women stop chasing, stop doubting, and start choosing relationships that actually feel good. If you’ve ever thought: “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of guy?” “Why does healthy love feel unfamiliar?” “Why does dating feel harder the moment I start to care?” You’re in the right place. This podcast is where emotional healing meets real-world dating, so you can finally trust yourself, spot red flags early, and move toward love that’s calm, mutual, and deeply connected. And to get started, download my free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 (+ How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast) at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps Love is closer than you think. Let’s get started.","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847"},"episode":{"title":"Ep #62: Is That Your Gut or Your Fear? 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You've journaled about it. You've asked your therapist. And you still can't tell if what you're feeling is your intuition or just that old anxiety doing its thing again. In Episode 62 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, I'm giving you a clear, body-based way to tell them apart, in real time, before you send the text, before you book the second date, before you talk yourself into something your body already answered. You'll also walk away with a prompt you can use on the spot, on a date, after a date, or right before you hit send. What's Inside This Episode: How to know what to look for that makes fear vs intuition so easy to recognize The one question that cuts through the noise when you genuinely cannot tell which voice is speaking A real life client example of going from a fear spiral to an empowered choice in her love life Practical ways to discern signals in real dating situations 🎧 Listen now and start learning to trust the voice that actually knows what's good for you. If you're dating after 40 and ready to stop second-guessing yourself, grab my free guide to the top dating apps and how to spot unavailable men fast. https://learn.trulyeleanor.com/datingapps Ready to go deeper? Module 2 of the Intuitive Path to Love course is entirely dedicated to this practice, walking you through establishing your own yes and your own no in your body so you feel the difference before you act. Four audio modules, seven chakra meditations, and a real framework for building self-trust in dating. Check it out: https://trulyeleanor.com/IPTL You can't make Mr. Unavailable love you, but you can choose someone who does. Love is closer than you think.","meta_description":"You've Googled it. You've journaled about it. You've asked your therapist. 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