{"podcast":{"title":"Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys","slug":"stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","podcast_index_feed_id":7038847,"rss_url":"https://api.riverside.fm/hosting/hAxSSQGn.rss/","website_url":"https://stopchasingunavailableguys.com","image_url":"https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fca2d947-a4ec-496b-976e-653f7873d367/cEEtMfp5zENmRKvnAGDcY8B7.jpg","author":"Truly Eleanor Intuitive Dating Coach","episode_count":64,"summary":"Welcome to the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. This is the show for single women over 40 who are done wasting time on emotionally unavailable guys and ready for real, healthy love. I’m Truly Eleanor, an intuitive dating coach with over 17 years of experience, and I help women stop chasing, stop doubting, and start choosing relationships that actually feel good. If you’ve ever thought: “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of guy?” “Why does healthy love feel unfamiliar?” “Why does dating feel harder the moment I start to care?” You’re in the right place. This podcast is where emotional healing meets real-world dating, so you can finally trust yourself, spot red flags early, and move toward love that’s calm, mutual, and deeply connected. And to get started, download my free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 (+ How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast) at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps Love is closer than you think. 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In Episode 55 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast , we’re redefining chemistry and exploring why the “spark” you’ve been chasing might actually be your nervous system reacting to emotional unpredictability. For many women, attraction has been conditioned through intensity: the adrenaline rush, mixed signals, and emotional highs and lows that feel exciting in the moment, but somehow keep leading you straight back to Mr. Emotionally Unavailable. But healthy love doesn’t feel chaotic. It feels calm, grounded, and emotionally safe. And if that feeling has ever made you think, “Hmm… maybe I’m just not attracted to him?” don’t worry you’re not the only one whose nervous system learned that love was supposed to feel like a rollercoaster at a questionable amusement park. In this episode, we explore the identity shift from chasing anxiety-based chemistry to recognizing emotional safety as true attraction. When your body chooses steadiness instead of emotional rollercoasters, dating starts to feel clearer, calmer and more aligned. In this episode you’ll learn: How emotional chaos gets mistaken for chemistry What emotionally safe attraction actually feels like Why calm connection can feel unfamiliar at first The identity shift that helps you choose healthier love Because the kind of attraction that leads to lasting love rarely feels like fireworks. It feels like coming home. If you’re ready to stop chasing sparks and start embodying the calm magnetism that attracts real love, the Magnetic Love Meditation Bundle is the perfect next step. 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