{"podcast":{"title":"Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys","slug":"stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","podcast_index_feed_id":7038847,"rss_url":"https://api.riverside.fm/hosting/hAxSSQGn.rss/","website_url":"https://stopchasingunavailableguys.com","image_url":"https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fca2d947-a4ec-496b-976e-653f7873d367/cEEtMfp5zENmRKvnAGDcY8B7.jpg","author":"Truly Eleanor Intuitive Dating Coach","episode_count":64,"summary":"Welcome to the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. This is the show for single women over 40 who are done wasting time on emotionally unavailable guys and ready for real, healthy love. I’m Truly Eleanor, an intuitive dating coach with over 17 years of experience, and I help women stop chasing, stop doubting, and start choosing relationships that actually feel good. If you’ve ever thought: “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of guy?” “Why does healthy love feel unfamiliar?” “Why does dating feel harder the moment I start to care?” You’re in the right place. This podcast is where emotional healing meets real-world dating, so you can finally trust yourself, spot red flags early, and move toward love that’s calm, mutual, and deeply connected. And to get started, download my free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 (+ How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast) at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps Love is closer than you think. Let’s get started.","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847"},"episode":{"title":"Ep #57 Dating After 40: The Hidden Reason You Never Feel Ready for Love","slug":"ep-57-dating-after-40-the-hidden-reason-you-never-feel-ready-for-love","published_at":"2026-03-30T17:20:35+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847/ep-57-dating-after-40-the-hidden-reason-you-never-feel-ready-for-love","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/38141dd573ddabc05681ac5f1000811083f004d47a175dd1df385a06d61e094c/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIwNmFhMThiMC1iZDhkLTRmMGItYjQ4MC00NDVhOWYxMzhlOTciLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmY2EyZDk0Ny1hNGVjLTQ5NmItOTc2ZS02NTNmNzg3M2QzNjciLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2NmUxZTUwYTQ2NGVjODIzY2MzYWZhZTEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjljYWIwZTNiYzQxZGJjODUyNTVhMDIwL3RydWx5LWVsZWFub3ItY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi0zLTMwX18xOS0yMC0zNS5tcDMifQ==.mp3","audio_url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/38141dd573ddabc05681ac5f1000811083f004d47a175dd1df385a06d61e094c/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIwNmFhMThiMC1iZDhkLTRmMGItYjQ4MC00NDVhOWYxMzhlOTciLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmY2EyZDk0Ny1hNGVjLTQ5NmItOTc2ZS02NTNmNzg3M2QzNjciLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2NmUxZTUwYTQ2NGVjODIzY2MzYWZhZTEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjljYWIwZTNiYzQxZGJjODUyNTVhMDIwL3RydWx5LWVsZWFub3ItY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi0zLTMwX18xOS0yMC0zNS5tcDMifQ==.mp3","summary":"If you’re dating after 40 and you’ve done all the things : therapy, journaling, inner child work, energy clearing, and you still feel like, “I’m just not quite ready yet”… this episode is for you. In Episode 57 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, we’re talking about a pattern that looks like growth, but feels like you’re stuck in a waiting room with no one calling your name. Because at some point, “I just need to heal a bit more” turns into a lifestyle. A very noble, self-aware, deeply exhausted lifestyle. And it makes sense. You want to get it right. You don’t want to repeat the past. But what if all that healing has quietly become a way of keeping yourself out of the game? This episode will show you how to move from endless self-improvement into actual lived confidence where you date, choose, and experience love as you are now. What’s Inside This Episode: ✨ Why you still feel “not ready” for love (even after doing all the work) ✨ The sneaky way healing keeps you stuck instead of moving you forward ✨ The shift that gets you out of “almost ready” and into actually dating again ✨ How to start experiencing real connection now, not someday when you’re “fully healed” ✨ Want support with this? If your brain is tired of looping and you’re ready to actually move what you’re feeling, the Heart Reset Journal gives you a simple, guided way to release it and come back to yourself without overthinking it. 👉 Click here to grab your journal Link to blog post I talked about: https://trulyeleanor.com/twinflame 🎧 Listen now and step into love without waiting to become a different version of you.","meta_description":"If you’re dating after 40 and you’ve done all the things : therapy, journaling, inner child work, energy clearing, and you still feel like, “I’m just not…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1009,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847/episodes/ep-57-dating-after-40-the-hidden-reason-you-never-feel-ready-for-love/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847/ep-57-dating-after-40-the-hidden-reason-you-never-feel-ready-for-love.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}