{"podcast":{"title":"Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys","slug":"stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","podcast_index_feed_id":7038847,"rss_url":"https://api.riverside.fm/hosting/hAxSSQGn.rss/","website_url":"https://stopchasingunavailableguys.com","image_url":"https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fca2d947-a4ec-496b-976e-653f7873d367/cEEtMfp5zENmRKvnAGDcY8B7.jpg","author":"Truly Eleanor Intuitive Dating Coach","episode_count":64,"summary":"Welcome to the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. This is the show for single women over 40 who are done wasting time on emotionally unavailable guys and ready for real, healthy love. I’m Truly Eleanor, an intuitive dating coach with over 17 years of experience, and I help women stop chasing, stop doubting, and start choosing relationships that actually feel good. If you’ve ever thought: “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of guy?” “Why does healthy love feel unfamiliar?” “Why does dating feel harder the moment I start to care?” You’re in the right place. This podcast is where emotional healing meets real-world dating, so you can finally trust yourself, spot red flags early, and move toward love that’s calm, mutual, and deeply connected. And to get started, download my free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 (+ How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast) at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps Love is closer than you think. Let’s get started.","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847"},"episode":{"title":"Ep#53 Dating After 40: How to Tell the Difference Between Intuition + Fear","slug":"ep-53-dating-after-40-how-to-tell-the-difference-between-intuition-fear","published_at":"2026-03-02T19:34:22+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847/ep-53-dating-after-40-how-to-tell-the-difference-between-intuition-fear","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/4b481243e0d9469ce79d80a83ff8624b368a3b7f8398a69ab8d2555f7f418e0a/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI1YWQyMWNhOS1iOGJjLTRjNjUtODJjYy0wZTAyNDU3NmQ4ZDMiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmY2EyZDk0Ny1hNGVjLTQ5NmItOTc2ZS02NTNmNzg3M2QzNjciLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2NmUxZTUwYTQ2NGVjODIzY2MzYWZhZTEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjlhNWU2M2UxNGRjNmU2Njk0OWFhMjQ2L3RydWx5LWVsZWFub3ItY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi0zLTJfXzIwLTM0LTIyLm1wMyJ9.mp3","audio_url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/4b481243e0d9469ce79d80a83ff8624b368a3b7f8398a69ab8d2555f7f418e0a/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI1YWQyMWNhOS1iOGJjLTRjNjUtODJjYy0wZTAyNDU3NmQ4ZDMiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmY2EyZDk0Ny1hNGVjLTQ5NmItOTc2ZS02NTNmNzg3M2QzNjciLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2NmUxZTUwYTQ2NGVjODIzY2MzYWZhZTEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjlhNWU2M2UxNGRjNmU2Njk0OWFhMjQ2L3RydWx5LWVsZWFub3ItY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi0zLTJfXzIwLTM0LTIyLm1wMyJ9.mp3","summary":"Last week we talked about anxiety when you like him. This week, we go deeper. Because once you understand your nervous system… the real question becomes: Can you tell the difference between fear and intuition while you’re sitting across from your date? Not later. Not after a three-hour debrief with your friends. In real time. In this episode, we move from managing fear that tries to take over to recognizing what’s actually true for you on dates. What’s Inside The Episode: How intuition actually communicates (it’s quieter than you think) Why strong feelings don’t automatically mean “red flag” The subtle body cues that signal truth versus protection How to stop outsourcing your decisions to overthinking What it feels like to know when something is right and when it isn’t This is the shift from second-guessing yourself… to knowing what’s real. From spiralling… to deciding calmly. Because calm confidence is understanding what you’re feeling and choosing from clarity instead of fear. 🎧 Listen now to strengthen your discernment and date with steadiness instead of doubt. Link mentioned in the episode: https://stopchasingunavailableguys.com","meta_description":"Last week we talked about anxiety when you like him. This week, we go deeper. Because once you understand your nervous system… the real question becomes:…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1166,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847/episodes/ep-53-dating-after-40-how-to-tell-the-difference-between-intuition-fear/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847/ep-53-dating-after-40-how-to-tell-the-difference-between-intuition-fear.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}