{"podcast":{"title":"Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys","slug":"stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","podcast_index_feed_id":7038847,"rss_url":"https://api.riverside.fm/hosting/hAxSSQGn.rss/","website_url":"https://stopchasingunavailableguys.com","image_url":"https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fca2d947-a4ec-496b-976e-653f7873d367/cEEtMfp5zENmRKvnAGDcY8B7.jpg","author":"Truly Eleanor Intuitive Dating Coach","episode_count":64,"summary":"Welcome to the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. This is the show for single women over 40 who are done wasting time on emotionally unavailable guys and ready for real, healthy love. I’m Truly Eleanor, an intuitive dating coach with over 17 years of experience, and I help women stop chasing, stop doubting, and start choosing relationships that actually feel good. If you’ve ever thought: “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of guy?” “Why does healthy love feel unfamiliar?” “Why does dating feel harder the moment I start to care?” You’re in the right place. This podcast is where emotional healing meets real-world dating, so you can finally trust yourself, spot red flags early, and move toward love that’s calm, mutual, and deeply connected. And to get started, download my free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 (+ How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast) at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps Love is closer than you think. Let’s get started.","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847"},"episode":{"title":"Episode #47 Dating Over 40? Here’s How to Silence the Self-Doubt","slug":"episode-47-dating-over-40-here-s-how-to-silence-the-self-doubt","published_at":"2025-11-24T18:52:14+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847/episode-47-dating-over-40-here-s-how-to-silence-the-self-doubt","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/55c557c2c91062e10b1105facdcd4955fa84192abf97444db2d0d3ead2798865/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIwNThlZDAzOS03ZDE0LTRjZDgtYTVlNC1lZTJhM2ZhNjVjZDAiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmY2EyZDk0Ny1hNGVjLTQ5NmItOTc2ZS02NTNmNzg3M2QzNjciLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2NmUxZTUwYTQ2NGVjODIzY2MzYWZhZTEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjkyNDlkYjljNjA5MzAzMzllNjAyMzk2L3RydWx5LWVsZWFub3ItY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNS0xMS0yNF9fMTktMi0zMy5tcDMifQ==.mp3","audio_url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/55c557c2c91062e10b1105facdcd4955fa84192abf97444db2d0d3ead2798865/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIwNThlZDAzOS03ZDE0LTRjZDgtYTVlNC1lZTJhM2ZhNjVjZDAiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmY2EyZDk0Ny1hNGVjLTQ5NmItOTc2ZS02NTNmNzg3M2QzNjciLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2NmUxZTUwYTQ2NGVjODIzY2MzYWZhZTEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjkyNDlkYjljNjA5MzAzMzllNjAyMzk2L3RydWx5LWVsZWFub3ItY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNS0xMS0yNF9fMTktMi0zMy5tcDMifQ==.mp3","summary":"If you’re dating after 40 and you feel like you are the thing getting in your own way, this episode is going to help you finally move forward. Today we’re unpacking the one pattern that kept me single for years and delayed meeting my husband until I was 44: self-doubt. In this episode, I’ll walk you through: Why self-doubt is not a personality flaw, it’s a learned pattern The surprising connection between childhood conditioning and dating chaos The exact framework I used to break free A simple daily heart-expansion exercise that melts self-doubt and builds confidence The moment I finally stopped believing I was broken—and how everything changed If you’ve ever gone back and forth on a decision… argued with yourself before a date… doubted every intuitive nudge… or felt like it’s too hard to start trusting yourself, this episode gives you a grounded path out of the mental maze. You’ll learn how to reconnect with the most powerful guidance system you have: your heart + intuition. 👉 Click play now to learn how to silence self-doubt and step into confident, intuitive dating after 40. Don't forget to grab my free dating guide here: https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps","meta_description":"If you’re dating after 40 and you feel like you are the thing getting in your own way, this episode is going to help you finally move forward. Today we’re…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1057,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847/episodes/episode-47-dating-over-40-here-s-how-to-silence-the-self-doubt/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847/episode-47-dating-over-40-here-s-how-to-silence-the-self-doubt.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}