{"podcast":{"title":"Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys","slug":"stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","podcast_index_feed_id":7038847,"rss_url":"https://api.riverside.fm/hosting/hAxSSQGn.rss/","website_url":"https://stopchasingunavailableguys.com","image_url":"https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fca2d947-a4ec-496b-976e-653f7873d367/cEEtMfp5zENmRKvnAGDcY8B7.jpg","author":"Truly Eleanor Intuitive Dating Coach","episode_count":64,"summary":"Welcome to the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. This is the show for single women over 40 who are done wasting time on emotionally unavailable guys and ready for real, healthy love. I’m Truly Eleanor, an intuitive dating coach with over 17 years of experience, and I help women stop chasing, stop doubting, and start choosing relationships that actually feel good. If you’ve ever thought: “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of guy?” “Why does healthy love feel unfamiliar?” “Why does dating feel harder the moment I start to care?” You’re in the right place. This podcast is where emotional healing meets real-world dating, so you can finally trust yourself, spot red flags early, and move toward love that’s calm, mutual, and deeply connected. And to get started, download my free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 (+ How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast) at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps Love is closer than you think. Let’s get started.","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847"},"episode":{"title":"Ep #63 From Self-Abandonment to Self-Trust: How to Break the Unavailable Love Pattern After 40","slug":"ep-63-from-self-abandonment-to-self-trust-how-to-break-the-unavailable-love-pattern-after-40","published_at":"2026-05-25T15:11:38+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847/ep-63-from-self-abandonment-to-self-trust-how-to-break-the-unavailable-love-pattern-after-40","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/ecddaf6b191994f06fdb22d16df874c3eb232642585e57487095ae31b4898091/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIxZDFkYzhhNi0yMzBiLTQ1YmEtOGRlNC1hYzEyZWJjYTEyNmYiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmY2EyZDk0Ny1hNGVjLTQ5NmItOTc2ZS02NTNmNzg3M2QzNjciLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2NmUxZTUwYTQ2NGVjODIzY2MzYWZhZTEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmExNDY5M2U2M2U4ZmQ5ODdlZDBjMmQ4L3RydWx5LWVsZWFub3ItY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi01LTI1X18xNy0yMi0zOC5tcDMifQ==.mp3","audio_url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/ecddaf6b191994f06fdb22d16df874c3eb232642585e57487095ae31b4898091/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIxZDFkYzhhNi0yMzBiLTQ1YmEtOGRlNC1hYzEyZWJjYTEyNmYiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmY2EyZDk0Ny1hNGVjLTQ5NmItOTc2ZS02NTNmNzg3M2QzNjciLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2NmUxZTUwYTQ2NGVjODIzY2MzYWZhZTEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmExNDY5M2U2M2U4ZmQ5ODdlZDBjMmQ4L3RydWx5LWVsZWFub3ItY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi01LTI1X18xNy0yMi0zOC5tcDMifQ==.mp3","summary":"You already know you keep choosing unavailable men. What you might not know yet is why. My guest this week, Pi Venus Winslow, spent years chasing connections that left her with a broken heart and no real answers. What she eventually figured out stopped her cold: the problem wasn't the men. It was a pattern of self-abandonment so deeply wired in that it felt completely normal. Familiar, even. If you're dating after 40 and you're exhausted from carrying the emotional weight of relationships that never quite work, this conversation is going to land somewhere important. About Pi Venus Winslow: Pi Venus Winslow is a published author, speaker, and transformational coach who helps adults heal from a narcissistic upbringing and codependency. After a lifetime of navigating the effects of a malignant narcissistic parent, Pi transformed her own patterns of self-doubt and self-abandonment. She now guides others to break free from those same cycles, rebuild self-trust, and create healthier, more aligned relationships. What's Inside This Episode: Why what feels like chemistry might actually be your nervous system recognizing a familiar pattern of emotional chaos The self-abandonment loop Pi identified that kept her stuck, and the moment she saw herself inside it A three-phase process for moving from understanding your patterns to actually showing up differently in love What it feels like when healthy love enters your life after years of emotional unavailability, and why it might not feel the way you expect 🎧 If you've ever thought \"I know better, so why do I keep doing this?” this one's for you. Listen now. Pi Venus Winslow’s Free gift to listeners: Identify your pattern underneath your attraction, especially if you keep finding yourself drawn to emotionally unavailable or inconsist…","meta_description":"You already know you keep choosing unavailable men. What you might not know yet is why. 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