{"podcast":{"title":"Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys","slug":"stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","podcast_index_feed_id":7038847,"rss_url":"https://api.riverside.fm/hosting/hAxSSQGn.rss/","website_url":"https://stopchasingunavailableguys.com","image_url":"https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fca2d947-a4ec-496b-976e-653f7873d367/cEEtMfp5zENmRKvnAGDcY8B7.jpg","author":"Truly Eleanor Intuitive Dating Coach","episode_count":64,"summary":"Welcome to the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. This is the show for single women over 40 who are done wasting time on emotionally unavailable guys and ready for real, healthy love. I’m Truly Eleanor, an intuitive dating coach with over 17 years of experience, and I help women stop chasing, stop doubting, and start choosing relationships that actually feel good. If you’ve ever thought: “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of guy?” “Why does healthy love feel unfamiliar?” “Why does dating feel harder the moment I start to care?” You’re in the right place. This podcast is where emotional healing meets real-world dating, so you can finally trust yourself, spot red flags early, and move toward love that’s calm, mutual, and deeply connected. And to get started, download my free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 (+ How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast) at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps Love is closer than you think. Let’s get started.","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847"},"episode":{"title":"Ep #60 The Identity Shift That Changes Everything About How You Date","slug":"ep-60-the-identity-shift-that-changes-everything-about-how-you-date","published_at":"2026-04-27T17:16:41+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847/ep-60-the-identity-shift-that-changes-everything-about-how-you-date","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/ac5fcdc02ec7674e67c5fcaab875ca761c9b0819bcd6dcea45c775b4ef003d36/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI3MDczOWM3Yy1mZjJmLTRlZWYtYTg4NS0yMjAxMDA3MWU3NGUiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmY2EyZDk0Ny1hNGVjLTQ5NmItOTc2ZS02NTNmNzg3M2QzNjciLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2NmUxZTUwYTQ2NGVjODIzY2MzYWZhZTEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjllZjk5ZmExZWE3NjgxYTI1ZGI4NWNkL3RydWx5LWVsZWFub3ItY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi00LTI3X18xOS0xNi00Mi5tcDMifQ==.mp3","audio_url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/ac5fcdc02ec7674e67c5fcaab875ca761c9b0819bcd6dcea45c775b4ef003d36/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI3MDczOWM3Yy1mZjJmLTRlZWYtYTg4NS0yMjAxMDA3MWU3NGUiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmY2EyZDk0Ny1hNGVjLTQ5NmItOTc2ZS02NTNmNzg3M2QzNjciLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2NmUxZTUwYTQ2NGVjODIzY2MzYWZhZTEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjllZjk5ZmExZWE3NjgxYTI1ZGI4NWNkL3RydWx5LWVsZWFub3ItY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi00LTI3X18xOS0xNi00Mi5tcDMifQ==.mp3","summary":"You've been doing the work. The journaling, the reflecting, the quiet moments where something clicked that you can't quite explain yet. This episode is your chance to feel how far you've actually come. In Episode 60 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, we're closing out Season Five with a full-circle look at the identity shift that's been building all season. The shift from the woman who chased emotionally unavailable men and questioned her worth, to the woman who trusts herself, chooses wisely, and lets love meet her there. This is the episode that brings it all together. What's Inside This Episode: The quiet but profound thing that happens on a date when you've genuinely changed Why dating can finally start to feel intentional, peaceful, and even fun What it really means to trust yourself in real time, not just in theory The identity that makes emotional availability your new standard How to carry everything you've learned into your daily life going forward 🎧 Listen now and give yourself credit for the woman you're becoming. And grab the free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 + How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast here: https://learn.trulyeleanor.com/datingapps And if you want support embodying that woman even more deeply, my Magnetic Love Bundle includes guided meditations to help you release fear, reset your energy, and stay open and grounded while attracting emotionally available partners. Click here to find out more 👉 [Magnetic Love Bundle] You can't make Mr. Unavailable love you, but you can choose someone who does. 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