{"podcast":{"title":"Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys","slug":"stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","podcast_index_feed_id":7038847,"rss_url":"https://api.riverside.fm/hosting/hAxSSQGn.rss/","website_url":"https://stopchasingunavailableguys.com","image_url":"https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fca2d947-a4ec-496b-976e-653f7873d367/cEEtMfp5zENmRKvnAGDcY8B7.jpg","author":"Truly Eleanor Intuitive Dating Coach","episode_count":64,"summary":"Welcome to the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. This is the show for single women over 40 who are done wasting time on emotionally unavailable guys and ready for real, healthy love. I’m Truly Eleanor, an intuitive dating coach with over 17 years of experience, and I help women stop chasing, stop doubting, and start choosing relationships that actually feel good. If you’ve ever thought: “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of guy?” “Why does healthy love feel unfamiliar?” “Why does dating feel harder the moment I start to care?” You’re in the right place. This podcast is where emotional healing meets real-world dating, so you can finally trust yourself, spot red flags early, and move toward love that’s calm, mutual, and deeply connected. And to get started, download my free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 (+ How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast) at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps Love is closer than you think. Let’s get started.","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847"},"episode":{"title":"Episode #4 Why Guys Keep Ghosting","slug":"episode-4-why-guys-keep-ghosting","published_at":"2024-10-28T12:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847/episode-4-why-guys-keep-ghosting","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","url":"https://trulyeleanor.com/why-he-keeps-ghosting-the-top-3-dating-mistakes-women-over-40-make/","audio_url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/75c4092133e3f58a0e8da4edd86e4cbc19d3f562f0e43c6b9f111460352d2629/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI1YjIxMDQ3NC0zNTk4LTQzMjUtODg1Ni01MTc1YmZkYTg0MDEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmY2EyZDk0Ny1hNGVjLTQ5NmItOTc2ZS02NTNmNzg3M2QzNjciLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2NmUxZTUwYTQ2NGVjODIzY2MzYWZhZTEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mY2EyZDk0Ny1hNGVjLTQ5NmItOTc2ZS02NTNmNzg3M2QzNjcvZXBpc29kZXMvNWIyMTA0NzQtMzU5OC00MzI1LTg4NTYtNTE3NWJmZGE4NDAxL0VsZWFub3ItTWFjRG9uYWxkLUVwLTQubXAzIn0=.mp3","summary":"If you’re a single woman dating over 40 and feeling like guys keep ghosting you for reasons you just can't understand—this episode is for you. I’m breaking down the top three dating mistakes I see as a love coach and the underlying limiting beliefs that keep you stuck. Let’s get real about what’s holding you back from finding a truly devoted relationship with Mr. Right. Here’s what I cover in episode 4 of The Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast: Dating Mistake #1: \"The Spark Obsession\" Ever felt that electric spark and thought, “This is it!” only to ignore red flags as they pile up? I dive into why that intense excitement can often lead us to overlook compatibility and safety. Spoiler: it's rooted in the need for excitement, which can be a limiting belief keeping us in patterns that don’t serve us. Dating Mistake #2: \"The Scarcity Trap\" Sometimes, it’s easy to tell yourself, “There aren’t enough good guys my age,” so you stay with someone hoping their potential will shine through. I’ll discuss how this scarcity mindset leads to endless chances for Mr. Not-Quite-Right—and how to move past it so you stay open to a truly healthy connection. Dating Mistake #3: \"Over-Compassion\" We all want to be compassionate and understanding, but sometimes this trait can become a trap, leading us to ignore our own needs. I’ll share how to set healthy boundaries and avoid settling just to keep the peace. I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com Goodbye Mr. Unavailable, Hello Mr. Right Toolkit : Ready to dive in? get your very own toolkit to help you find Mr. Right without wasting any more time on unavaila…","meta_description":"If you’re a single woman dating over 40 and feeling like guys keep ghosting you for reasons you just can't understand—this episode is for you. 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