{"podcast":{"title":"Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys","slug":"stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","podcast_index_feed_id":7038847,"rss_url":"https://api.riverside.fm/hosting/hAxSSQGn.rss/","website_url":"https://stopchasingunavailableguys.com","image_url":"https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fca2d947-a4ec-496b-976e-653f7873d367/cEEtMfp5zENmRKvnAGDcY8B7.jpg","author":"Truly Eleanor Intuitive Dating Coach","episode_count":64,"summary":"Welcome to the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. This is the show for single women over 40 who are done wasting time on emotionally unavailable guys and ready for real, healthy love. I’m Truly Eleanor, an intuitive dating coach with over 17 years of experience, and I help women stop chasing, stop doubting, and start choosing relationships that actually feel good. If you’ve ever thought: “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of guy?” “Why does healthy love feel unfamiliar?” “Why does dating feel harder the moment I start to care?” You’re in the right place. This podcast is where emotional healing meets real-world dating, so you can finally trust yourself, spot red flags early, and move toward love that’s calm, mutual, and deeply connected. And to get started, download my free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 (+ How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast) at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps Love is closer than you think. Let’s get started.","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847"},"episode":{"title":"Episode #18 How To Recognize Unavailable Guys: Red Flags to Watch Out For","slug":"episode-18-how-to-recognize-unavailable-guys-red-flags-to-watch-out-for","published_at":"2025-03-03T12:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847/episode-18-how-to-recognize-unavailable-guys-red-flags-to-watch-out-for","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-chasing-unavailable-guys-7038847","url":"https://trulyeleanor.com/how-to-recognize-mr-unavailable-red-flags-to-watch-out-for/","audio_url":"https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/1b0b0b78830ff6911bb378235ab898c884d139c380c2be2e6977cc3e17e81fdc/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIzNmFlZGUzZC1kOWRkLTQyNjYtODU0My1kN2E3NWZjYzg5NGMiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmY2EyZDk0Ny1hNGVjLTQ5NmItOTc2ZS02NTNmNzg3M2QzNjciLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2NmUxZTUwYTQ2NGVjODIzY2MzYWZhZTEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mY2EyZDk0Ny1hNGVjLTQ5NmItOTc2ZS02NTNmNzg3M2QzNjcvZXBpc29kZXMvMzZhZWRlM2QtZDlkZC00MjY2LTg1NDMtZDdhNzVmY2M4OTRjL0VsZWFub3ItTWFjRG9uYWxkLWVwLTYubXAzIn0=.mp3","summary":"Hey there! If you're a single woman over 40 looking for Mr. Right and tired of wasting your time on unavailable guys, this episode is for you. As an intuitive love coach, I'm breaking down what red flags really mean, how to recognize them, and—most importantly—how to stop chasing the wrong men. My goal is to empower you with practical dating strategies so you can date with intention and confidence. Let's dive in! What We Cover in This Episode: What Red Flags Really Are: Understanding the signs of an unavailable man and why we often ignore them. Owning Your Dating Patterns: How acknowledging your past choices can set you free. Mindset Shifts You Need: Why recognizing red flags early on is key to avoiding heartache. Emotional and Physical Cues: How your body might be signaling you to run the other way. Practical Dating Strategies: What to do when you spot red flags on a first or second date. Affirmations for a Healthier Love Life: Simple statements to reprogram your mindset and attract the right kind of love. Exercises to Define Your Red Flags: How to create a clear picture of what Mr. Unavailable looks like for you. I hope this episode gave you the insights you need to date more intentionally and avoid the pitfalls of chasing unavailable men. Remember, recognizing red flags isn't about judgment—it's about protecting your time, energy, and heart. If you haven't yet, make sure to listen to the previous episode on green flags so you can focus on what you do want, not just what you want to avoid. Until next time, keep dating with purpose and trust your intuition—you've got this! I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.sto…","meta_description":"Hey there! 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