Podcast

Softly Unfiltered

Author: Ashlyn & Blake
Feed episode count: 87
Official site: https://softlyunfiltered.com
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Summary

Hosted by Ashlyn and Blake, two multifaceted Black women based in Houston, Softly Unfiltered is where soft meets honest. Each week, we get real about personal growth, healing, navigating corporate America, and the messy, funny, and complex realities of modern dating. From breaking generational cycles to finding our voice in spaces that weren't built for us, our conversations blend honesty, humor, and hard truths—all rooted in our lived experiences. Whether we're swapping stories, tackling trending topics, or unpacking the unspoken rules of friendship, relationships, beauty, ambition, and womanhood, we're here to remind you that you can be soft and strong, ambitious and at peace, healed and still healing. If you've ever felt like you're balancing a hundred different versions of yourself, welcome. This is a space for the multifaceted girlies. Pull up a seat. The group chat is live. 💕 New episodes every Wednesday.

Episodes

Jul 8, 2026 · not_requested

All I Need to Do Is Stay Black and Die | The Pressure to Make Everyone Else Comfortable

Duration seconds: 1878
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Jul 1, 2026 · not_requested

What If Changing Direction Was the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You?

Duration seconds: 2014
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Jun 24, 2026 · not_requested

Why Are Girls Low Key Weird? | The Truth About Female Friendships and Female Rivalry

Duration seconds: 2569
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Jun 17, 2026 · not_requested

You're Not Asking for Too Much, You're Just Done Settling | Standards vs. Settling

Duration seconds: 2063
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Jun 10, 2026 · not_requested

She Has Everything But A Man | Why a Woman's Life Is Never Allowed to Just Be Enough on Its Own

Duration seconds: 2178
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Jun 3, 2026 · not_requested

You Can Be Confident and Still Have Low Self-Worth | Why We Accept Less Than We Deserve

Duration seconds: 1927
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May 27, 2026 · not_requested

The Dating Insecurities You Have When You Grew Up Invisible | Black Girl Dating Experience

Duration seconds: 2132
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May 20, 2026 · not_requested

Dating the Potential Rich Man | When Believing in Someone Becomes Emotional Labor

Duration seconds: 2209
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May 13, 2026 · not_requested

Confidence, Self Obsession, and Breaking Out of Survival Mode Feat. Erica Ware The Confidence Coach

Duration seconds: 3201
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May 6, 2026 · not_requested

Why We'll Spend $500 on Beauty But Feel Guilty About Everything Else

Duration seconds: 2275
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Apr 29, 2026 · not_requested

The Money Talk Nobody Wants to Have About Dating | Standards, Finances and Compatibility

Duration seconds: 2182
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Apr 22, 2026 · not_requested

Building a Personal Brand as a Black Woman Feat. Asya (@conqueringasya) | Beauty, Softness & Success

Duration seconds: 3003
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Apr 15, 2026 · not_requested

Is Success Supposed to Feel This Anticlimactic? | Ambition, Burnout and Finding Fulfillment

Duration seconds: 1845
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Apr 8, 2026 · not_requested

Becoming a Pretty Wealthy Woman ft. Caitlyn Kumi | Personal Branding, Dating and Corporate Life

Duration seconds: 3591
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Apr 1, 2026 · not_requested

Is Taking Things Slow Healthy or Avoidant?

Duration seconds: 1517
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Mar 25, 2026 · not_requested

Do Women Owe Men Feminine Energy If the Man Isn’t Providing Masculine Leadership?

Duration seconds: 1727
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Mar 18, 2026 · not_requested

Should Black Women Stop Dating Men Who Grew Up on Survival Until They Go to Therapy?

Duration seconds: 2440
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Mar 11, 2026 · not_requested

Is Loneliness the Cost of Outgrowing Chaos?

Duration seconds: 2653
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Mar 4, 2026 · not_requested

Is Outgrowing People a Natural Part of Adulthood or a Failure of Loyalty?

Duration seconds: 2066
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Feb 26, 2026 · not_requested

Do Black Women From Stable Homes Get Punished for Not Having a “Struggle Story”?

Duration seconds: 2351
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Feb 18, 2026 · not_requested

Why Does Choosing Peace Feel Less Impressive Than Choosing Ambition?

Duration seconds: 2516
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Feb 12, 2026 · not_requested

Why Is Women’s Confidence Seen as Ego?

Duration seconds: 2695
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Feb 5, 2026 · not_requested

Are We Actually Healed or Just Better at Explaining Our Trauma?

Duration seconds: 2509
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Jan 29, 2026 · not_requested

Is Healing Making Us Less Tolerable to People Who Benefited From Our Silence?

Duration seconds: 2125
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Jan 22, 2026 · not_requested

Is Sisterhood Making Us Avoid Hard Conversations? Friendship Boundaries, Emotional Honesty & Growth

Duration seconds: 2435
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Jan 14, 2026 · not_requested

Is Independence Actually Emotional Self-Protection For Black Women? Let’s Be Honest

Duration seconds: 2489
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Jan 12, 2026 · not_requested

2025 Wasn’t What We Expected: Here’s What It Taught Us About Becoming Her

Duration seconds: 2321
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Jan 7, 2026 · not_requested

Love Languages Change When You Heal (And That’s the Point)

Duration seconds: 2136
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Dec 29, 2025 · not_requested

Adulting Is Ghetto: The Truth About Work, Money, Loneliness & Boundaries

Duration seconds: 2548
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Dec 21, 2025 · not_requested

Not Black Enough? Movies, Food & The Unspoken Rules of Blackness

Duration seconds: 2253
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