Podcast

Ask the Unfaithful

Author: James & Sam
Feed episode count: 73
Official site: https://sites.libsyn.com/548157
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Summary

The Ask The Unfaithful Podcast, is a safe place for both Unfaithful and Betrayed Partners to find hope and healing. This podcast draws on both our personal and professional experience to provide expert insight into the mind of the Unfaithful, and how their behaviors traumatically affect the life, heart and even brain plasticity of Betrayed Partners. Ask the Unfaithful is hosted by two Unfaithfuls in long-term recovery, James and Sam: Therapist and coach James Annear who co-owns CORE Relationship Recovery with his wife, Sharon Rinearson. They have been helping couples recover from the traumatic impacts of infidelity, sexually compulsive behaviors and addiction for over a decade. Formerly with Affair Recovery and now host of Sam's Healing Podcast, Sam has been producing videos for almost 10 years and helping to care for those in crisis due to infidelity and addiction for almost 15 years.

Episodes

May 21, 2026 · not_requested

Episode 69: 10 Hallmarks of Authentic Betrayal Recovery In The Unfaithful

Duration seconds: 2176
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-69-10-hallmarks-of-authentic-betrayal-recovery-in-the-unfaithful

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May 9, 2026 · not_requested

Episode 68: 15 LANGUAGE SHIFTS THE UNFAITHFUL CAN USE TO REBUILD TRUST AFTER BETRAYAL

Duration seconds: 2305
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-68-15-language-shifts-the-unfaithful-can-use-to-rebuild-trust-after-betrayal

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Apr 24, 2026 · not_requested

Episode 67: IN BETRAYAL RECOVERY, WORDS MATTER - HEALING vs. HARMFUL LANGUAGE

Duration seconds: 1505
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-67-in-betrayal-recovery-words-matter-healing-vs-harmful-language

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Apr 8, 2026 · not_requested

Episode 66: 3 CORE MISUNDERSTANDINGS THE UNFAITHFUL HAVE THAT BLOCK RELATIONAL RECOVERY

Duration seconds: 1796
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-66-3-core-misunderstandings-the-unfaithful-have-that-block-relational-recovery

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Mar 26, 2026 · not_requested

Episode 65: THIS "RECOVERY BEHAVIOR" IS JUST ANOTHER FORM OF BETRAYAL

Duration seconds: 1812
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-65-this-recovery-behavior-is-just-another-form-of-betrayal

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Mar 12, 2026 · not_requested

Episode 64: UNDERSTANDING BETRAYAL: DO MEN AND WOMEN CHEAT FOR DIFFERENT REASONS?

Duration seconds: 2145
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-64-understanding-betrayal-do-men-and-women-cheat-for-different-reasons

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Feb 27, 2026 · not_requested

Episode 63: SUBTLE WAYS THE UNFAITHFUL PHONE IN BETRAYAL RECOVERY - PERFORMATIVE VS REAL RECOVERY

Duration seconds: 1939
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-63-subtle-ways-the-unfaithful-phone-in-betrayal-recovery-performative-vs-real-recovery

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Feb 12, 2026 · not_requested

Episode 62: Peter Pan Syndrome: Can The Unfaithful Ever Really Grow Up?

Duration seconds: 2044
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-62-peter-pan-syndrome-can-the-unfaithful-ever-really-grow-up

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Feb 3, 2026 · not_requested

Episode 61 - Rebuilding Trust: The Missing Key The Unfaithful MUST Know

Duration seconds: 2326
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-61-rebuilding-trust-the-missing-key-the-unfaithful-must-know

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Jan 15, 2026 · not_requested

Episode 60: Is The Unfaithful's Self Care Really Self Indulgence?

Duration seconds: 1940
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-60-is-the-unfaithfuls-self-care-really-self-indulgence

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Jan 2, 2026 · not_requested

S6: NEW BEGINNINGS - The Hidden Turning Point For the Unfaithful In Betrayal Recovery

Duration seconds: 883
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/s6-new-beginnings-the-hidden-turning-point-for-the-unfaithful-in-betrayal-recovery

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Dec 18, 2025 · not_requested

Episode 59: 7 WAYS THE UNFAITHFUL MISHANDLE THE BETRAYED'S DISENFRANCHISED GRIEF

Duration seconds: 1913
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-59-7-ways-the-unfaithful-mishandle-the-betrayeds-disenfranchised-grief

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Dec 4, 2025 · not_requested

Episode 58: LIMERENCE: CAN THE DAMAGE EVER BE REPAIRED?

Duration seconds: 1909
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-58-limerence-can-the-damage-ever-be-repaired

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Nov 28, 2025 · not_requested

Episode 57: What are No Lose Decisions In Infidelity Recovery?

Duration seconds: 2066
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-57-what-are-no-lose-decisions-in-infidelity-recovery

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Nov 6, 2025 · not_requested

Episode 56: HEALING FROM SECRET INTRIGUE

Duration seconds: 2269
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-56-healing-from-secret-intrigue

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Oct 24, 2025 · not_requested

Episode 55: INTRIGUE: The Silent Saboteur of Healing and Connection After Infidelity

Duration seconds: 1799
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-55-intrigue-the-silent-saboteur-of-healing-and-connection-after-infidelity

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Oct 9, 2025 · not_requested

Episode 54: What Are The Consequences of People Pleasing For the Unfaithful?

Duration seconds: 2087
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-54-what-are-the-consequences-of-people-pleasing-for-the-unfaithful

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Sep 25, 2025 · not_requested

ATU Shorts SE5: Helping the Unfaithful Move From "Not It!" to "Got it!"

Duration seconds: 592
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/atu-shorts-se5-helping-the-unfaithful-move-from-not-it-to-got-it

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Sep 11, 2025 · not_requested

Episode 53: 10 Ways the Unfaithful's Distorted Thinking Destroys Hope

Duration seconds: 2403
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-53-10-ways-the-unfaithfuls-distorted-thinking-destroys-hope

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Aug 28, 2025 · not_requested

Episode 52: Entitlement in the Unfaithful: From Demanding to Devotion

Duration seconds: 2008
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-52-entitlement-in-the-unfaithful-from-demanding-to-devotion

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Aug 14, 2025 · not_requested

Episode 51: 4 Ways Shame and Avoidance Sabotage Healing from Infidelity

Duration seconds: 1862
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-51-4-ways-shame-and-avoidance-sabotage-healing-from-infidelity

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Jul 18, 2025 · not_requested

Episode 50: The Arousal Template: Identifying Triggers and Blindspots

Duration seconds: 2088
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-50-the-arousal-template-identifying-triggers-and-blindspots

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Jul 2, 2025 · not_requested

Episode 49: Was the Unfaithful Really in Love with the Affair Partner?

Duration seconds: 1831
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-49-was-the-unfaithful-really-in-love-with-the-affair-partner

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Jun 18, 2025 · not_requested

Episode 48: 5 Signs the Unfaithful Isn't Sorry...Yet

Duration seconds: 2313
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-48-5-signs-the-unfaithful-isnt-sorryyet

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Jun 8, 2025 · not_requested

Episode 47: How Criticism Sabotages Affair Recovery

Duration seconds: 1884
Source: https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-47-how-criticism-sabotages-affair-recovery

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