{"podcast":{"title":"Ask the Unfaithful","slug":"ask-the-unfaithful-7030282","podcast_index_feed_id":7030282,"rss_url":"https://feeds.libsyn.com/548157/rss","website_url":"https://sites.libsyn.com/548157","image_url":"https://static.libsyn.com/p/assets/b/7/b/a/b7ba3da7b2c2506527a2322813b393ee/AskTheUnfaithful2.jpg","author":"James & Sam","episode_count":73,"summary":"The Ask The Unfaithful Podcast, is a safe place for both Unfaithful and Betrayed Partners to find hope and healing. This podcast draws on both our personal and professional experience to provide expert insight into the mind of the Unfaithful, and how their behaviors traumatically affect the life, heart and even brain plasticity of Betrayed Partners. Ask the Unfaithful is hosted by two Unfaithfuls in long-term recovery, James and Sam: Therapist and coach James Annear who co-owns CORE Relationship Recovery with his wife, Sharon Rinearson. They have been helping couples recover from the traumatic impacts of infidelity, sexually compulsive behaviors and addiction for over a decade. Formerly with Affair Recovery and now host of Sam's Healing Podcast, Sam has been producing videos for almost 10 years and helping to care for those in crisis due to infidelity and addiction for almost 15 years.","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282"},"episode":{"title":"Episode 49: Was the Unfaithful Really in Love with the Affair Partner?","slug":"episode-49-was-the-unfaithful-really-in-love-with-the-affair-partner","published_at":"2025-07-02T23:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-49-was-the-unfaithful-really-in-love-with-the-affair-partner","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282","url":"https://8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f.libsyn.com/episode-49-was-the-unfaithful-really-in-love-with-the-affair-partner","audio_url":"https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/8e1106a8-3530-4552-a732-0917d7a3602f/E48_-_WAS_THE_UNFAITHFUL_REALLY_IN_LOVE_WITH_THE_AFFAIR_PARTNER.mp3?dest-id=4728192","summary":"In this powerful episode of Ask the Unfaithful, we unpack one of the most misunderstood emotional experiences in the aftermath of infidelity: limerence. Often confused with love, limerence is an obsessive, fantasy-fueled state that can hijack recovery and prolong betrayal. If you've ever felt \"addicted\" to your affair partner or struggled to break free—even when you know the relationship is destructive—this episode is for you. Join Sam and James as they explore: • What limerence really is (and what it's not) • How emotional and sexual affairs can become neurologically addictive • The difference between a soulmate and a \"woundmate\" • The role of fantasy, childhood wounds, and emotional neglect • Early warning signs that you're in a \"Limerent Spiral\" • Proven steps to break free and come back to reality • How to recognize limerence if you are in it - or if you're a betrayed observing it • How unfaithful partners can recognize, and heal from, the damage of limerence • This episode is a must-listen for couples trying to rebuild after infidelity, therapists supporting betrayal recovery, and anyone caught in the grip of obsession disguised as connection. 📺 For more helpful content, we invite you to explore our companion show: Ask The Betrayed (@AskTheBetrayed on YouTube) 📧 Contact us: AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com 🔗 Need help healing? Visit HopeForUs.com (Email: Info@HopeForUs.com ) or email Sam at SamsHealingPodcast@gmail.com 📘 Download the FREE workbook for this episode: https://www.asktheunfaithful.com/down... 👍 Like, Subscribe, and Leave a Comment below to share what resonated most—or ask your question for a future episode. ------ Our Website: www.AskTheUnfaithful.com Contact us: AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com Find James & Sharon at the CORE Relationship Recovery website: www.H…","meta_description":"In this powerful episode of Ask the Unfaithful, we unpack one of the most misunderstood emotional experiences in the aftermath of infidelity: limerence. O…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1831,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episodes/episode-49-was-the-unfaithful-really-in-love-with-the-affair-partner/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-49-was-the-unfaithful-really-in-love-with-the-affair-partner.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}