# Ask the Unfaithful Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282.md RSS feed: https://feeds.libsyn.com/548157/rss Official site: https://sites.libsyn.com/548157 Author: James & Sam Episodes: 73 ## Resource The Ask The Unfaithful Podcast, is a safe place for both Unfaithful and Betrayed Partners to find hope and healing. This podcast draws on both our personal and professional experience to provide expert insight into the mind of the Unfaithful, and how their behaviors traumatically affect the life, heart and even brain plasticity of Betrayed Partners. Ask the Unfaithful is hosted by two Unfaithfuls in long-term recovery, James and Sam: Therapist and coach James Annear who co-owns CORE Relationship Recovery with his wife, Sharon Rinearson. They have been helping couples recover from the traumatic impacts of infidelity, sexually compulsive behaviors and addiction for over a decade. Formerly with Affair Recovery and now host of Sam's Healing Podcast, Sam has been producing videos for almost 10 years and helping to care for those in crisis due to infidelity and addiction for almost 15 years. ## Machine-readable JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282 Markdown: https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282.md ## Episodes - [Episode 69: 10 Hallmarks of Authentic Betrayal Recovery In The Unfaithful](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-69-10-hallmarks-of-authentic-betrayal-recovery-in-the-unfaithful) — 2026-05-21T11:58:00+00:00 - [Episode 68: 15 LANGUAGE SHIFTS THE UNFAITHFUL CAN USE TO REBUILD TRUST AFTER BETRAYAL](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-68-15-language-shifts-the-unfaithful-can-use-to-rebuild-trust-after-betrayal) — 2026-05-09T01:17:00+00:00 - [Episode 67: IN BETRAYAL RECOVERY, WORDS MATTER - HEALING vs. HARMFUL LANGUAGE](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-67-in-betrayal-recovery-words-matter-healing-vs-harmful-language) — 2026-04-24T22:52:00+00:00 - [Episode 66: 3 CORE MISUNDERSTANDINGS THE UNFAITHFUL HAVE THAT BLOCK RELATIONAL RECOVERY](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-66-3-core-misunderstandings-the-unfaithful-have-that-block-relational-recovery) — 2026-04-08T23:29:00+00:00 - [Episode 65: THIS "RECOVERY BEHAVIOR" IS JUST ANOTHER FORM OF BETRAYAL](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-65-this-recovery-behavior-is-just-another-form-of-betrayal) — 2026-03-26T07:18:00+00:00 - [Episode 64: UNDERSTANDING BETRAYAL: DO MEN AND WOMEN CHEAT FOR DIFFERENT REASONS?](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-64-understanding-betrayal-do-men-and-women-cheat-for-different-reasons) — 2026-03-12T11:40:00+00:00 - [Episode 63: SUBTLE WAYS THE UNFAITHFUL PHONE IN BETRAYAL RECOVERY - PERFORMATIVE VS REAL RECOVERY](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-63-subtle-ways-the-unfaithful-phone-in-betrayal-recovery-performative-vs-real-recovery) — 2026-02-27T12:18:00+00:00 - [Episode 62: Peter Pan Syndrome: Can The Unfaithful Ever Really Grow Up?](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-62-peter-pan-syndrome-can-the-unfaithful-ever-really-grow-up) — 2026-02-12T03:49:00+00:00 - [Episode 61 - Rebuilding Trust: The Missing Key The Unfaithful MUST Know](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-61-rebuilding-trust-the-missing-key-the-unfaithful-must-know) — 2026-02-03T00:23:00+00:00 - [Episode 60: Is The Unfaithful's Self Care Really Self Indulgence?](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-60-is-the-unfaithful-s-self-care-really-self-indulgence) — 2026-01-15T07:34:00+00:00 - [S6: NEW BEGINNINGS - The Hidden Turning Point For the Unfaithful In Betrayal Recovery](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/s6-new-beginnings-the-hidden-turning-point-for-the-unfaithful-in-betrayal-recovery) — 2026-01-02T06:50:00+00:00 - [Episode 59: 7 WAYS THE UNFAITHFUL MISHANDLE THE BETRAYED'S DISENFRANCHISED GRIEF](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-59-7-ways-the-unfaithful-mishandle-the-betrayed-s-disenfranchised-grief) — 2025-12-18T07:27:00+00:00 - [Episode 58: LIMERENCE: CAN THE DAMAGE EVER BE REPAIRED?](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-58-limerence-can-the-damage-ever-be-repaired) — 2025-12-04T02:19:00+00:00 - [Episode 57: What are No Lose Decisions In Infidelity Recovery?](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-57-what-are-no-lose-decisions-in-infidelity-recovery) — 2025-11-28T03:00:00+00:00 - [Episode 56: HEALING FROM SECRET INTRIGUE](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-56-healing-from-secret-intrigue) — 2025-11-06T11:34:00+00:00 - [Episode 55: INTRIGUE: The Silent Saboteur of Healing and Connection After Infidelity](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-55-intrigue-the-silent-saboteur-of-healing-and-connection-after-infidelity) — 2025-10-24T09:48:00+00:00 - [Episode 54: What Are The Consequences of People Pleasing For the Unfaithful?](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-54-what-are-the-consequences-of-people-pleasing-for-the-unfaithful) — 2025-10-09T10:21:00+00:00 - [ATU Shorts SE5: Helping the Unfaithful Move From "Not It!" to "Got it!"](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/atu-shorts-se5-helping-the-unfaithful-move-from-not-it-to-got-it) — 2025-09-25T07:45:00+00:00 - [Episode 53: 10 Ways the Unfaithful's Distorted Thinking Destroys Hope](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-53-10-ways-the-unfaithful-s-distorted-thinking-destroys-hope) — 2025-09-11T14:30:00+00:00 - [Episode 52: Entitlement in the Unfaithful: From Demanding to Devotion](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-52-entitlement-in-the-unfaithful-from-demanding-to-devotion) — 2025-08-28T05:13:00+00:00 - [Episode 51: 4 Ways Shame and Avoidance Sabotage Healing from Infidelity](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-51-4-ways-shame-and-avoidance-sabotage-healing-from-infidelity) — 2025-08-14T06:53:00+00:00 - [Episode 50: The Arousal Template: Identifying Triggers and Blindspots](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-50-the-arousal-template-identifying-triggers-and-blindspots) — 2025-07-18T10:44:00+00:00 - [Episode 49: Was the Unfaithful Really in Love with the Affair Partner?](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-49-was-the-unfaithful-really-in-love-with-the-affair-partner) — 2025-07-02T23:00:00+00:00 - [Episode 48: 5 Signs the Unfaithful Isn't Sorry...Yet](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-48-5-signs-the-unfaithful-isn-t-sorry-yet) — 2025-06-18T18:07:00+00:00 - [Episode 47: How Criticism Sabotages Affair Recovery](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-the-unfaithful-7030282/episode-47-how-criticism-sabotages-affair-recovery) — 2025-06-08T20:05:00+00:00 ## Actions Episode pages expose an explicit `request_transcript` action. 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