Podcast

Love and Abuse

Author: Paul Colaianni
Feed episode count: 174
Official site: http://loveandabuse.com/
RSS: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/rss
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Summary

Helping you identify toxic communication, emotional abuse, manipulation, and other forms of difficult behavior in relationships. Love and Abuse offers the perspective of both the victim and the perpetrator. Full of tips and advice for your friendships, family, love life, and marriage. You'll learn about covert abusive communication that takes away your power. And you'll discover how to pinpoint the specific toxic behaviors, such as narcissistic abuse and verbal abuse, before you are dragged into a psychological game so deep you come out a shell of your former self. Love and Abuse is the official podcast of The M.E.A.N. Workbook, an assessment and healing guide to help you evaluate the emotionally abusive and manipulative patterns in your relationship. Get the guide that will tell you exactly what's happening in your relationship over at loveandabuse.com. https://loveandabuse.com/

Episodes

May 28, 2026 · not_requested

Can you still like someone who hurt you but not love them?

Duration seconds: 2453
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/can-you-still-like-someone-who-hurt-you-but-not-love-them

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May 18, 2026 · not_requested

Are your children being manipulated, too?

Duration seconds: 2636
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/are-your-children-being-manipulated-too

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May 7, 2026 · not_requested

If you don't draw the line on how much is too much, you won't have a line

Duration seconds: 2391
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/if-you-dont-draw-the-line-on-how-much-is-too-much-you-wont-have-a-line

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Apr 30, 2026 · not_requested

How does an abusive person become an abusive person?

Duration seconds: 1082
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/how-does-an-abusive-person-become-an-abusive-person

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Apr 28, 2026 · not_requested

Getting conned into taking an unhealed abuser back

Duration seconds: 1525
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/getting-conned-into-taking-an-unhealed-abuser-back

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Apr 21, 2026 · not_requested

Do mutually abusive relationships have a chance?

Duration seconds: 2329
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/do-mutually-abusive-relationships-have-a-chance

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Apr 15, 2026 · not_requested

The superiority complex of misogynists

Duration seconds: 1712
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/the-superiority-complex-of-misogynists

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Apr 8, 2026 · not_requested

When you won't see an emotionally abusive person change

Duration seconds: 2257
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/when-you-wont-see-an-emotionally-abusive-person-change

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Apr 1, 2026 · not_requested

Did you sign up for a life of indentured servitude?

Duration seconds: 1572
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/did-you-sign-up-for-a-life-of-indentured-servitude

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Mar 24, 2026 · not_requested

They say they love you but they hurt you anyway

Duration seconds: 1638
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/they-say-they-love-you-but-they-hurt-you-anyway

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Mar 19, 2026 · not_requested

I feel like a bad person for being abusive back

Duration seconds: 1482
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/i-feel-like-a-bad-person-for-being-abusive-back

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Mar 13, 2026 · not_requested

The healed emotional abuser is more than just a behavioral change

Duration seconds: 3109
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/the-healed-emotional-abuser-is-more-than-just-a-behavioral-change

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Mar 3, 2026 · not_requested

Do we talk about divorce during the argument or the calm period

Duration seconds: 1477
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/do-we-talk-about-divorce-during-the-argument-or-the-calm-period

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Feb 10, 2026 · not_requested

Do I accept that this is how theyll be forever

Duration seconds: 2606
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/do-i-accept-that-this-is-how-theyll-be-forever

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Jan 29, 2026 · not_requested

When its impossible to get away from all the toxic behavior

Duration seconds: 2681
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Jan 14, 2026 · not_requested

Dont call them what they really are, it will work against you

Duration seconds: 1942
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/dont-call-them-what-they-really-are-it-will-work-against-you

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Jan 9, 2026 · not_requested

Total defeat and burnout in the emotionally abusive relationship

Duration seconds: 3090
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/total-defeat-and-burnout-in-the-emotionally-abusive-relationship

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Dec 30, 2025 · not_requested

When you are a captive audience to the emotionally abusive monologuer

Duration seconds: 1991
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/when-you-are-a-captured-audience-to-the-emotionally-abusive-monologuer

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Dec 4, 2025 · not_requested

Ive stopped being abusive, let's have sex

Duration seconds: 3199
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/ive-stopped-being-abusive-lets-have-sex

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Nov 17, 2025 · not_requested

Don't gaslight yourself into thinking you're the abuser

Duration seconds: 4154
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/dont-gaslight-yourself-into-thinking-youre-the-abuser

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Nov 6, 2025 · not_requested

The feelings of guilt and shame after leaving the abusive person

Duration seconds: 2009
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/the-feelings-of-guilt-and-shame-after-leaving-the-abusive-person

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Oct 21, 2025 · not_requested

Breaking the trauma bond can be hard as hell

Duration seconds: 2509
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/breaking-the-trauma-bond-can-be-hard-as-hell

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Oct 9, 2025 · not_requested

Can you heal from severe abuse while still in a severely abusive situation?

Duration seconds: 2722
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/can-you-heal-from-severe-abuse-while-still-in-a-severely-abusive-situation

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Sep 17, 2025 · not_requested

Why you may not be ready to call it abuse when it is abuse

Duration seconds: 1544
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/why-you-may-not-be-ready-to-call-it-abuse-when-it-is-abuse

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Sep 3, 2025 · not_requested

Do you end the relationship because they won't?

Duration seconds: 1874
Source: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/do-you-end-the-relationship-because-they-wont

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