# Love and Abuse Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011.md RSS feed: https://loveandabuse.libsyn.com/rss Official site: http://loveandabuse.com/ Author: Paul Colaianni Episodes: 174 ## Resource Helping you identify toxic communication, emotional abuse, manipulation, and other forms of difficult behavior in relationships. Love and Abuse offers the perspective of both the victim and the perpetrator. Full of tips and advice for your friendships, family, love life, and marriage. You'll learn about covert abusive communication that takes away your power. And you'll discover how to pinpoint the specific toxic behaviors, such as narcissistic abuse and verbal abuse, before you are dragged into a psychological game so deep you come out a shell of your former self. Love and Abuse is the official podcast of The M.E.A.N. Workbook, an assessment and healing guide to help you evaluate the emotionally abusive and manipulative patterns in your relationship. Get the guide that will tell you exactly what's happening in your relationship over at loveandabuse.com. https://loveandabuse.com/ ## Machine-readable JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/love-and-abuse-340011 Markdown: https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011.md ## Episodes - [Can you still like someone who hurt you but not love them?](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/can-you-still-like-someone-who-hurt-you-but-not-love-them) — 2026-05-28T00:19:00+00:00 - [Are your children being manipulated, too?](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/are-your-children-being-manipulated-too) — 2026-05-18T22:06:00+00:00 - [If you don't draw the line on how much is too much, you won't have a line](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/if-you-don-t-draw-the-line-on-how-much-is-too-much-you-won-t-have-a-line) — 2026-05-07T19:38:00+00:00 - [How does an abusive person become an abusive person?](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/how-does-an-abusive-person-become-an-abusive-person) — 2026-04-30T20:24:00+00:00 - [Getting conned into taking an unhealed abuser back](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/getting-conned-into-taking-an-unhealed-abuser-back) — 2026-04-28T22:48:00+00:00 - [Do mutually abusive relationships have a chance?](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/do-mutually-abusive-relationships-have-a-chance) — 2026-04-21T21:08:00+00:00 - [The superiority complex of misogynists](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/the-superiority-complex-of-misogynists) — 2026-04-15T21:28:00+00:00 - [When you won't see an emotionally abusive person change](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/when-you-won-t-see-an-emotionally-abusive-person-change) — 2026-04-08T17:35:00+00:00 - [Did you sign up for a life of indentured servitude?](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/did-you-sign-up-for-a-life-of-indentured-servitude) — 2026-04-01T00:20:00+00:00 - [They say they love you but they hurt you anyway](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/they-say-they-love-you-but-they-hurt-you-anyway) — 2026-03-24T23:12:00+00:00 - [I feel like a bad person for being abusive back](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/i-feel-like-a-bad-person-for-being-abusive-back) — 2026-03-19T00:38:00+00:00 - [The healed emotional abuser is more than just a behavioral change](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/the-healed-emotional-abuser-is-more-than-just-a-behavioral-change) — 2026-03-13T22:23:00+00:00 - [Do we talk about divorce during the argument or the calm period](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/do-we-talk-about-divorce-during-the-argument-or-the-calm-period) — 2026-03-03T23:14:00+00:00 - [Do I accept that this is how theyll be forever](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/do-i-accept-that-this-is-how-theyll-be-forever) — 2026-02-10T22:52:00+00:00 - [When its impossible to get away from all the toxic behavior](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/when-its-impossible-to-get-away-from-all-the-toxic-behavior) — 2026-01-29T22:41:00+00:00 - [Dont call them what they really are, it will work against you](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/dont-call-them-what-they-really-are-it-will-work-against-you) — 2026-01-14T21:58:00+00:00 - [Total defeat and burnout in the emotionally abusive relationship](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/total-defeat-and-burnout-in-the-emotionally-abusive-relationship) — 2026-01-09T19:43:00+00:00 - [When you are a captive audience to the emotionally abusive monologuer](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/when-you-are-a-captive-audience-to-the-emotionally-abusive-monologuer) — 2025-12-30T23:19:00+00:00 - [Ive stopped being abusive, let's have sex](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/ive-stopped-being-abusive-let-s-have-sex) — 2025-12-04T18:55:00+00:00 - [Don't gaslight yourself into thinking you're the abuser](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/don-t-gaslight-yourself-into-thinking-you-re-the-abuser) — 2025-11-17T20:48:00+00:00 - [The feelings of guilt and shame after leaving the abusive person](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/the-feelings-of-guilt-and-shame-after-leaving-the-abusive-person) — 2025-11-06T23:40:00+00:00 - [Breaking the trauma bond can be hard as hell](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/breaking-the-trauma-bond-can-be-hard-as-hell) — 2025-10-21T14:22:00+00:00 - [Can you heal from severe abuse while still in a severely abusive situation?](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/can-you-heal-from-severe-abuse-while-still-in-a-severely-abusive-situation) — 2025-10-09T00:01:00+00:00 - [Why you may not be ready to call it abuse when it is abuse](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/why-you-may-not-be-ready-to-call-it-abuse-when-it-is-abuse) — 2025-09-17T20:16:00+00:00 - [Do you end the relationship because they won't?](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-and-abuse-340011/do-you-end-the-relationship-because-they-won-t) — 2025-09-03T23:03:00+00:00 ## Actions Episode pages expose an explicit `request_transcript` action. 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