Episode
Things I Wish I Knew About Love (So I Didn’t Beg for the Bare Minimum)
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- Hot and Unbothered
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- Feb 13, 2026
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- 2250
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Summary
Love isn’t supposed to make you abandon yourself. In this episode, I’m sharing the things I wish I knew about love before I over-explained, over-gave, and accepted less than I deserved. From boundaries and self-respect to why you don’t need to be in a relationship at all times, this is a reminder that love should add to your life — not drain it. We talk about:• Why you never need to convince someone to value you + the Pink Diamond Theory• Setting standards early (without playing games)• Why you can’t fix someone (and don’t need to)• Why hot-and-cold love isn’t passion— it’s toxicity This episode is for the girls learning to choose themselves without guilt and love without losing who they are. ✨ Real love doesn’t require you to shrink.✨ You don’t need to earn basic respect.✨ And you are allowed to walk away. Check out the Acaso Site! The tool you NEED to stick to your goals this year: the BECOMING HER PLANNER for the girlies who are serious about leveling up (made by your's truly!) Remember to rate the pod 5 stars & leave a review to be featured in next week's episode! Subscribe to my YouTube channel for more! Join our Hot & Unbothered besties groupchat to hold each other accountable! Tune in to learn how to unlock your highest, hottest, & HAPPIEST self and truly GLOW UP from the inside and out. Stream Hot & Unbothered on ANY PLATFORM. LET’S BE FRIENDS ♡: Hot & Unbothered is on TikTok!:…