{"podcast":{"title":"Hot and Unbothered","slug":"hot-and-unbothered-6798147","podcast_index_feed_id":6798147,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/EERMB2102767917","website_url":"https://hot-unbothered.mn.co/landing","image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/74d1c5a0-d9d2-11f0-bf24-73d9e836c300/image/94af9be18c918c871eed5e8a04fd5013.jpg?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"Brianna Gomez","episode_count":115,"summary":"Welcome to Hot and Unbothered, your go-to pod for becoming the hottest, highest version of yourself. Embody a magnetic it-girl mindset that fosters personal growth as we dive into all things from self love and confidence, to lifestyle and wellness tips. Hosted by Brianna Gomez, content creator/digital big sis who has amassed millions of views teaching women to achieve a high-vibrational energy and look/feel their best while doing it! New episodes every Friday.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-25T00:17:39.162406+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/hot-and-unbothered-6798147"},"episode":{"title":"Things I Wish I Knew About Love (So I Didn’t Beg for the Bare Minimum)","slug":"things-i-wish-i-knew-about-love-so-i-didn-t-beg-for-the-bare-minimum","published_at":"2026-02-13T14:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/hot-and-unbothered-6798147/things-i-wish-i-knew-about-love-so-i-didn-t-beg-for-the-bare-minimum","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/hot-and-unbothered-6798147","url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/EERMB8782368291.mp3?updated=1770933026","audio_url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/EERMB8782368291.mp3?updated=1770933026","summary":"Love isn’t supposed to make you abandon yourself. In this episode, I’m sharing the things I wish I knew about love before I over-explained, over-gave, and accepted less than I deserved. From boundaries and self-respect to why you don’t need to be in a relationship at all times, this is a reminder that love should add to your life — not drain it. We talk about:• Why you never need to convince someone to value you + the Pink Diamond Theory• Setting standards early (without playing games)• Why you can’t fix someone (and don’t need to)• Why hot-and-cold love isn’t passion— it’s toxicity This episode is for the girls learning to choose themselves without guilt and love without losing who they are. ✨ Real love doesn’t require you to shrink.✨ You don’t need to earn basic respect.✨ And you are allowed to walk away. Check out the Acaso Site! The tool you NEED to stick to your goals this year: the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠BECOMING HER PLANNER⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for the girlies who are serious about leveling up (made by your's truly!) Remember to rate the pod 5 stars & leave a review to be featured in next week's episode! Subscribe to my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube channel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for more! Join our Hot & Unbothered besties⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ groupchat to hold each other accountable! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Tune in to learn how to unlock your highest, hottest, & HAPPIEST self and truly GLOW UP from the inside and out. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stream Hot & Unbothered on ANY PLATFORM.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS ♡: Hot & Unbothered is on TikTok!:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…","meta_description":"Love isn’t supposed to make you abandon yourself. In this episode, I’m sharing the things I wish I knew about love before I over-explained, over-gave, and…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2250,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/hot-and-unbothered-6798147/episodes/things-i-wish-i-knew-about-love-so-i-didn-t-beg-for-the-bare-minimum/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/hot-and-unbothered-6798147/things-i-wish-i-knew-about-love-so-i-didn-t-beg-for-the-bare-minimum.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}