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Ep 15: From Classroom to Fatherhood: How Teaching Made Mike a Better Dad
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- The Dad Manual
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- Apr 7, 2026
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- 2351
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Summary
What if the best thing you can do for your kids is get out of their way? Tony sits down with Mike Mendelson — a former high school teacher, devoted co-parent, and self-described "great dad" — for a wide-ranging conversation about raising capable, independent kids. Mike shares how teaching shaped his parenting philosophy, why the word "yet" is a game-changer, and what it really looks like to co-parent with purpose. From a near-miss mountain adventure to gut-punch moments with his son, Mike opens up about the wins, the mistakes, and the mindset shifts that have made him a better father. Key Takeaways: The "growth mindset" (Carol Dweck's work) is one of the most powerful frameworks a dad can bring home from the classroom The word "yet" reframes limitation as a temporary state — and it changes everything for kids Co-parenting well requires treating the other parent as a business partner with a shared mission: the kids' wellbeing Having solo parenting time creates a kind of focused "full-on dad mode" that's hard to replicate otherwise A less risk-tolerant partner provides real safety value — autonomy in parenting has a trade-off "Parenting for independence" — modeled by Mike's own father — is about asking "how will you do this when I'm not here?" Wait time is a tactical, teachable skill: ask a question, be silent, and let the kid find the answer Breaking generational patterns starts with noticing the unconscious ones — like pushing a child past what's age-appropriate Confidence in your own way of dadding matters — no one else dads exactly like you If you enjoyed The Dad Manual, leave us a rating on your podcast app! If you loved it, share this episode with a Dad! Send your questions to [email protected] . Connect with Tony Cooper: https://www.linkedin.com/in/theton…