{"podcast":{"title":"The Dad Manual","slug":"the-dad-manual-7554137","podcast_index_feed_id":7554137,"rss_url":"https://feeds.transistor.fm/the-dad-manual","website_url":null,"image_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/PcJcfVx2Sw5jO2OtWhkgYMldD7j3a6caz7IkVMF6G0k/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8zMWVh/NTk0NDViNmUyYWZl/Zjk4NDk3NWVjMWEy/NWYxYi5wbmc.jpg","author":"Andy Milad","episode_count":30,"summary":"The Dad Manual is a fatherhood podcast hosted by Tony Cooper, featuring honest conversations with dads about the real, unfiltered journey of parenthood. This parenting podcast for dads explores everything from the excitement of being a first time dad to navigating the teenage years. As one of the best podcasts for expecting dads and experienced fathers alike, we dive deep into what it actually means to be a modern dad—the struggles, the growth, the mistakes, and the moments that change you forever. Whether you're looking for a new dad podcast or seasoned parenting wisdom, this family podcast delivers the honest guidance you won't find in books.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-14T22:17:03.182957+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dad-manual-7554137"},"episode":{"title":"Ep 15: From Classroom to Fatherhood: How Teaching Made Mike a Better Dad","slug":"ep-15-from-classroom-to-fatherhood-how-teaching-made-mike-a-better-dad","published_at":"2026-04-07T11:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dad-manual-7554137/ep-15-from-classroom-to-fatherhood-how-teaching-made-mike-a-better-dad","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dad-manual-7554137","url":"https://share.transistor.fm/s/1449d74b","audio_url":"https://media.transistor.fm/1449d74b/47f28ca5.mp3","summary":"What if the best thing you can do for your kids is get out of their way? Tony sits down with Mike Mendelson — a former high school teacher, devoted co-parent, and self-described \"great dad\" — for a wide-ranging conversation about raising capable, independent kids. Mike shares how teaching shaped his parenting philosophy, why the word \"yet\" is a game-changer, and what it really looks like to co-parent with purpose. From a near-miss mountain adventure to gut-punch moments with his son, Mike opens up about the wins, the mistakes, and the mindset shifts that have made him a better father. Key Takeaways: The \"growth mindset\" (Carol Dweck's work) is one of the most powerful frameworks a dad can bring home from the classroom The word \"yet\" reframes limitation as a temporary state — and it changes everything for kids Co-parenting well requires treating the other parent as a business partner with a shared mission: the kids' wellbeing Having solo parenting time creates a kind of focused \"full-on dad mode\" that's hard to replicate otherwise A less risk-tolerant partner provides real safety value — autonomy in parenting has a trade-off \"Parenting for independence\" — modeled by Mike's own father — is about asking \"how will you do this when I'm not here?\" Wait time is a tactical, teachable skill: ask a question, be silent, and let the kid find the answer Breaking generational patterns starts with noticing the unconscious ones — like pushing a child past what's age-appropriate Confidence in your own way of dadding matters — no one else dads exactly like you If you enjoyed The Dad Manual, leave us a rating on your podcast app! If you loved it, share this episode with a Dad! Send your questions to dadmanualpodcast@gmail.com . Connect with Tony Cooper: https://www.linkedin.com/in/theton…","meta_description":"What if the best thing you can do for your kids is get out of their way? Tony sits down with Mike Mendelson — a former high school teacher, devoted co-par…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2351,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-dad-manual-7554137/episodes/ep-15-from-classroom-to-fatherhood-how-teaching-made-mike-a-better-dad/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dad-manual-7554137/ep-15-from-classroom-to-fatherhood-how-teaching-made-mike-a-better-dad.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}