Episode
Why Calling Out An Avoidant Always Backfires
- Podcast
- The Art of Love With Lucia
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- May 13, 2026
- Duration seconds
- 506
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Summary
If you've ever called out an avoidant for pulling away, being distant or sending mixed signals, you may have accidentally pushed them further away. In this episode I explain why calling out an avoidant usually backfires and what to do instead if you want to stop the push-pull cycle. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book Instagram #avoidant #avoidantattachment #getexback #getavoidantback #attachmentstyle