# Why Calling Out An Avoidant Always Backfires

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Podcast: [The Art of Love With Lucia](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-art-of-love-with-lucia-1069642)
Published: 2026-05-13T15:34:01+00:00
Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lucia5183/episodes/Why-Calling-Out-An-Avoidant-Always-Backfires-e3jalfk
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## Resource

If you've ever called out an avoidant for pulling away, being distant or sending mixed signals, you may have accidentally pushed them further away. In this episode I explain why calling out an avoidant usually backfires and what to do instead if you want to stop the push-pull cycle. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book Instagram #avoidant #avoidantattachment #getexback #getavoidantback #attachmentstyle

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