Episode
5 Reasons I Knew He (My Fiancé) Was Secure
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- Healing Anxious Attachment
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- Jul 2, 2026
- Duration seconds
- 595
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- https://www.becomingsecurecommunity.com/
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Summary
I'm taking you behind the scenes of my own relationship and sharing the 5 things I noticed about my now-fiancé that told me - this one is different. After years of dating avoidant men and convincing myself the anxiety was just chemistry, experiencing security for the first time was genuinely disorienting. I almost didn't trust it. In this episode I cover the five signs that changed everything for me - from the way he showed up on day one, to the moment he was willing to walk away rather than pressure me, to what it finally felt like to be truly held in my emotions. If you're not sure what you're looking for, or you keep finding yourself in the same cycles - this one is for you. Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love. Live workshop monthly Live Q&A monthly Access the 21 day Foundations Path 50+ somatic exercises -and more! First 7 Days Free >> Join Us