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The Graceful Stumble: How to own what went wrong without letting it own you
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- Jul 6, 2026
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Summary
Leadership isn't about avoiding mistakes, it's about what happens after you make one. In today’s episode, Stacey and Cade explore why the moments after a leadership stumble can strengthen trust more than getting everything right the first time. Drawing on decades of research, they explain why leaders who own mistakes clearly, avoid defensiveness, and focus on what's next earn deeper credibility with their teams. You'll also learn the common traps leaders fall into after making mistakes and three practical exercises to help you recover well, build trust, and lead with greater confidence. 5 key takeaways Owning a mistake well can build more trust than never making a mistake at all. Leaders often undermine trust by either explaining away mistakes ("spin") or dwelling on them ("cratering"). A strong recovery follows three steps: name the mistake, skip the excuses, and explain what you'll do differently next time. Addressing mistakes within 24 hours keeps small issues from becoming larger leadership problems. When leaders model accountability, they create psychological safety and encourage their teams to do the same. Chapters 00:00 Why leaders lose trust after mistakes 02:10 The service recovery paradox and leadership 06:50 Two common mistakes leaders make after a stumble 12:19 The three-step framework for owning a mistake 20:08 Why it's never too late to rebuild trust 22:51 Three leadership experiments to practice this week To learn more about us and the podcast, visit youmighttrythis.com and check us out on social media @youmighttrythis