Episode
When You’re Better At The Job Than The Parents
- Podcast
- What The Nanny Heard
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- Apr 14, 2026
- Duration seconds
- 1825
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Summary
Charlotte, Charlie and Millie explore the question of who is responsible for setting boundaries and expectations for the children in their care. While Nannies often bring professional experience and a strong understanding of child development, parents ultimately define the values and parenting approach they want for their family. The conversation highlights that the most successful arrangements come from collaboration, where both roles are respected and clearly understood. The discussion then moves on to what happens when a Nanny feels a situation isn’t working. The ladies emphasise the importance of approaching these conversations with sensitivity and professionalism. Rather than criticising, Nannies should focus on observations, use calm and neutral language, and centre the child’s wellbeing. Offering thoughtful solutions and choosing the right moment to raise concerns can make all the difference in how the message is received. They also touch on the importance of checking in with parents before suggesting any changes to routines or behaviour. While a Nanny may feel adjustments would be beneficial, parents may be perfectly happy with how things are. It’s important for Nannies to remember that their role is to advise and support, not to override parental decisions. An important reminder throughout the episode is that sometimes a Nanny and family may simply not be the right match. If a parent does not wish to change their approach and it conflicts with the nanny’s professional values, it’s okay to acknowledge that the relationship may not work long-term. Finally, the ladies discuss the impact of a Nanny who consistently criticises the parents’ parenting style. This can quickly damage trust, create tension within the home, and ultimately affect the children. Maintaining…