Episode
What if I hate networking?
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- What If? For Authors
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- Jul 7, 2025
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- 1744
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Summary
Episode Description: In this episode, Claire explores why so many authors hate networking (hint: it’s not because you’re antisocial), how the Enneagram can reveal the hidden gifts you bring to any professional community, and why deep, meaningful connections—not surface-level ones—are the real magic behind sustainable author careers. Whether you’re a conference avoider, an online lurker, or someone who thinks they’re just bad at making friends, this episode is packed with practical advice, gentle encouragement, and some hard-won insights about what it takes to build a network that actually feeds you. In this episode, you'll learn: Why many authors resist networking—and how to gently shift that mindset How your Enneagram type may influence your relationship with connection The difference between transactional vs. transformational networks Tips for building relationships that don’t feel forced or fake What to do if you're socially anxious, neurodivergent, or easily overwhelmed Simple strategies to start (or deepen) meaningful author connections Takeaway Challenge:Reach out to one person in the writing industry you like but haven’t spoken to in a while. Just say hi. Ask how they’re doing. That’s it. That’s networking. Support the Show: If you found this episode thought-provoking and helpful, please leave a review on your favorite podcast platform and share it with fellow authors. Every review helps more writers discover this resource. Access the transcript here. Happy Writing!