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87. You Got What You Wanted. So Why Do You Feel Stuck?
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- Visionary's Pursuit
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- Jun 3, 2026
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Episode Summary Lately I've watched several clients and prospective clients arrive at the same strange crossroads. They set a vision years ago, chased it down with everything they had, and now they've actually reached it. They have the income, the title, the reputation, the kind of flexibility most people would envy but they keep circling back to is some version of "what's next for me?" In this episode we sit with that question. I talk about why human beings are wired to keep growing and what actually happens to us when we stop. I share the story of a CMO who landed the role she'd dreamed of and now feels boxed in by it, and a founder who sold her company for millions and is now sitting at home asking who she is without it. If you've reached a summit and the view isn't quite what you pictured, or you're still climbing and want to do it differently this time, this episode is for you. Key Takeaways Growth is one of our core human needs. When we stop growing we don't hold steady, we slowly start to feel smaller, even when nothing about our circumstances has gotten worse Getting stuck after a big win is usually a belief problem before it's a circumstance problem. When your current life is genuinely good, your brain struggles to believe something even better is available, and the old dream quietly becomes evidence against the new one The first vision asks you to risk failure and rejection. The next one asks you to risk the identity you built on the way up, which is why the second mountain can feel heavier than the first even when it looks smaller from the outside Once you've succeeded, the pull toward certainty grows because you finally have something real to lose. The known starts to feel safer than the fulfilling, and plenty of people trade aliveness for predictability wi…