Episode
Happiness Break: A Compassionate Letter to Yourself
- Podcast
- The Science of Happiness
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- Jun 11, 2026
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- 598
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Summary
Take less than 10 minutes to write yourself a letter of care, compassion, and encouragement with psychologist Kristin Neff in this research-backed practice. How To Do This Practice: Choose an area of self-judgment: Think of one aspect of yourself that makes you feel inadequate, stressed, or not quite good enough. Name what you're feeling: Write a few sentences about the situation and the emotions it brings up, such as sadness, fear, frustration, shame, or loneliness. Imagine an unconditionally compassionate friend: Picture someone who is wise, accepting, and deeply caring—someone who sees both your strengths and your struggles without judgment. Write a letter from their perspective: Let this compassionate friend respond to your situation with understanding, kindness, and acceptance, recognizing that imperfection is part of being human. Include gentle wisdom and encouragement: If it feels helpful, have your compassionate friend offer caring suggestions for growth or change—not because you need fixing, but because they want you to thrive. Read the letter back to yourself: Set the letter aside for a while, then return to it and read it slowly, allowing the words of compassion and support to sink in. Scroll down for a transcription of this episode. Listen to the Full Practice Here: https://self-compassion.org/practices/noting-practice-2/ Today’s Happiness Break Guide: Dr. Kristin Neff is an associate professor in the University of Texas at Austin's department of educational psychology. She's also the co-author of ' Mindful Self-Compassion for Burnout, ' which offers tools to help individuals heal and recharge from burnout. More Happiness Breaks like this one: A Self-Compassion Meditation For Burnout: https://tinyurl.com/ye24rz4k The Healing Power of Your Own Touch: https:/…