Episode
The Right Person Won't Make You Smaller — They'll Make You More of Who You Already Are
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- The Niche Is You
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- Jul 6, 2026
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- 1251
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Summary
In this episode we’ll talk about: The quiet test that reveals whether love is expanding you or shrinking you Why so many of us learned to shrink in love before we knew we were doing it What it actually feels like to be with someone who makes you more of who you are How aligned love creates space for the parts of you that were waiting to come forward The difference between intensity and expansion in a relationship Why the right person doesn't compete with your becoming — they participate in it And more… START HERE… → Join The Niche Is You® — my Substack (20K+) — Weekly essays, the full workshop library, the private community + the Quarterly Challenges. → https://mattgottesman.substack.com/about NEW HERE… → 6 Days to Clarity Workshop — clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play. → https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life (FREE) CONNECT WITH ME… → Instagram — @mattgottesman → TikTok — @mattgottesman → YouTube — @mattgottesman RESOURCES… → Write • Design • Build — my Content Creator Studio & OS masterclass (Included when you join my Substack) — Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & income — CLICK HERE → Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE → Apparel — thenicheisyou.com OTHER RELATED EPISODES: Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest Step Apple: https://apple.co/3MB62Iu Spotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN