Episode
Why Are Narcissists So Cruel When They Are Finished With You?
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- The Mental Healness Podcast
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- Jul 15, 2026
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- 719
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Summary
In this video, I break down why narcissists and abusive people are so cruel when they’re discarding you, from the perspective of a clinically diagnosed narcissist who has been on the other side of that breakup. We’ll talk about how ego injury and loss of control drive their rage, why they need to see you as “broken” or pathetic to justify leaving, and how smear campaigns, threats, and comparison to “new supply” become tools to repair their own shattered self‑image. I’ll show you the hidden logic behind their cruelty, why they twist the story so you look like the abuser and how that keeps you stuck searching for closure in a situation that was never going to make sense. If you’ve ever wondered why the person who claimed to love you suddenly seemed to enjoy hurting you at the end, this breakdown will give you the clarity you need to stop blaming yourself, recognize the discard for what it is, and start focusing on your own healing. Book a Coaching Session: [ https://link.me/mentalhealness ]🔥 My Books: [ https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ ] 🎙 Listen to the Mental Healness Podcast: [ https://youtube.com/@mentalhealnesspodcast?si=AVcJfHa16HZReqHL ]