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#111 The Psychology of Erotic Permission: Julieta Chiara on Submission, Shibari & Becoming Yourself
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- The Erotic Realm
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- Jun 29, 2026
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Summary
What happens when you finally give yourself permission to desire what you truly want? In this episode I chat with sex therapist and Shibari practitioner Julieta Chiara to explore the psychology of submission, women's desire, erotic permission, and the transformative power of saying "yes" to yourself. We explore: Women's desire and sexual permission. Submission and empowerment. Shibari and Japanese rope bondage. Why "your first Dom is you". Pain, presence, and transformation. Research article: Are Role and Gender Related to Sexual Function and Satisfaction in Men and Women Practicing BDSM? Supporters of The Erotic Realm: Firm Tech for sexual health tracking here . Splash blanket for intimacy-friendly comfort here . ProDx Health at home STI testing here . Innovative Sex Tech: Lioness here . Kiiroo here . Luxus here . Lovense here . Science-backed libido support: Flow supplement here . Desire supplement here . Interested in Kinky Speed Dating? Register Here. The Erotic Realm now has it’s own merchandise! If you love the show and want to support it check it out here. Visit psychologyofdesire.com to support the podcast, or apply to be a guest. I'd love to chat to you. Thanks for listening! Stay perverted, Emma See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .