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When Your Business Partner Is Your Spouse
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- Feb 19, 2026
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Summary
Brian Miller (Coach Approach Ministries) is joined by Robert & Kaylee Fukui, authors of Tandem: The Married Entrepreneur's Guide for Greater Work-Life Balance , with special guest Danelle Miller (CAM Operations Director… and Brian's wife). They talk about what happens when marriage and business share the same kitchen table: role confusion, taking things personally, decision gridlock, risk tolerance gaps, and the surprisingly powerful value of prepping conversations so nobody gets blindsided. Along the way: performance reviews when you're married to the boss, why "we never argue" is not the flex people think it is, and the simple signals and boundaries that keep conflict messy-but-safe instead of messy-and-destructive. Key takeaways Name the hat you're wearing. "Husband vs boss vs coach" isn't semantics—it's the difference between teamwork and accidental emotional arson. Most conflict escalates because it gets personal fast. Entrepreneur couples take disagreement as distrust quicker than typical coworkers would. Decision-making is the #1 limiter. If you can't come to agreement, you can't move forward in business—and you might torch the marriage while trying. Risk tolerance differences are real (and predictable). One person wants to jump; the other wants a safety net. Healthy couples build the net together . No surprises. Healthy reviews and hard conversations work best when people get a heads-up and a chance to think and respond. "Guard your heart" (shot over the bow). A simple pre-signal + a few deep breaths helps the listener receive without reacting. DISC-style awareness lowers the temperature. When differences are expected, they stop feeling like betrayal and start feeling like design. Memorable moments (with timestamps) 00:01:30 – 00:04:10 — Brian describes working…