Episode
Episode 421 - Why Talks About Sex Keep Going Sideways
- Podcast
- Sex for Saints
- Published
- May 15, 2026
- Duration seconds
- 1228
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Summary
Hard conversations don't fall apart because of what's said, but often because of how they start. In this episode, I will show you why "ambush conversations" trigger defensiveness and disconnection, even when you're trying to fix something important. I will walk you through how to create true consent in conversations by giving context, asking for the right timing, and honoring your spouse's capacity to engage. I will also share what to do if you're the one being caught off guard or if your partner keeps avoiding the conversation altogether. When you shift the way you start hard conversations, you will begin to create safety, trust, and a way forward together.