Episode
Episode 413 - One-Sided Intimacy
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- Sex for Saints
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- Mar 20, 2026
- Duration seconds
- 1386
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Summary
What if intimacy in your marriage didn't actually depend on your spouse showing up first? In this episode, I'm sharing a powerful shift that changes how we think about emotional connection and why so many relationships feel one-sided. We will talk about what intimacy really means and how you can choose to be knowable and curious about your partner, even when they're not meeting you there. I will introduce the concept of self-validated intimacy and how it frees you from waiting on your spouse's response to feel connected. We will also explore the role of reciprocity and why mutual intimacy is still the goal. If you've been feeling lonely in your marriage or wondering why your spouse won't open up, this episode will help you see your next step more clearly.