Episode

Season 8: Episode 13: When your partner was never married to the mom and why stepmoms are the worst with guest, Shayla

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Radical Stepmoms
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May 2, 2025
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Summary

Christina chats with Shayla about how dynamics are just different when your partner was never married to the mom. There was no wedding, no long history... what unique issues does this bring up? Shayla shares about the custody loss for 50/50, feeling protective of your partner and the frustration with “single” moms. Why do exes get more upset after you're married? How do you “love them like your own” but not too much? Shayla also discusses her unexplained fertility journey and shares a message to the stepmoms who can relate to her journey. Listen in! About My Guest: Hi! I’m Shayla, a 28 year old wife and step mom to an amazing 7 year old boy! Being a step mom is one of my favorite roles in life, even with all of the ups and downs that come with it. My husband and I have been trying to have an “ours” baby since we got married in 2023 and are currently waiting for our second frozen embryo transfer which will hopefully be happening in April or May. I love sharing my story on social media and connecting with other women with similar stories! It’s my goal that every woman has a place to feel safe and seen. Find her on IG: @shaydemp So much more than a podcast! Instagram: @radicalstepmomspodcast Need some extra support? ⁠⁠Schedule with Christina!⁠⁠ Become a Member of the ⁠⁠Rad Community ⁠⁠ and meet other stepmoms! ⁠⁠www.radicalstepmomspodcast.com