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Coercive Control Is a War of Attrition with Laura Richards
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- Feb 6, 2026
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Summary
In this episode of Perfect Prey , I’m joined by Laura Richards , a criminal behavioral analyst, former New Scotland Yard specialist, and one of the leading global voices on coercive control. Laura has been instrumental in changing laws on stalking and coercive control in the UK and internationally, and her work has helped shape policy, legislation, and professional practice worldwide. We explore why coercive control is not about isolated incidents, but a patterned strategy of domination, entrapment, and power imbalance. Laura explains why coercive control is best understood as a war of attrition , how patriarchy and misogyny shape institutional responses, and why women and children are so often disbelieved—even when the evidence is present. This conversation examines how legal systems, family courts, and law enforcement frequently fail victims and survivors, particularly at the point of separation, when risk escalates most dramatically. We also discuss why coercive control must be criminalized, why gender matters in risk assessment, and how language itself can either obscure or reveal abuse. What we cover What coercive control really is and why it’s a patterned form of abuse Why victims and survivors are often disbelieved by systems meant to protect them Coercive control as “murders and suicides in slow motion” The role of patriarchy, entitlement, and power imbalance in abuse Why separation is the most dangerous time for women and children How family courts can become a tool of post-separation abuse Why protecting children requires protecting the non-abusive parent The urgent need to criminalize coercive control globally Why listen If you are a survivor, protective parent, clinician, attorney, advocate, or policymaker, this episode offers critical insight into how coer…