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I Lost Myself In My Marriage. Then I Made One Decision That Changed Everything.
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- Lights On with Carl Lentz
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- Jan 28, 2026
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- 2005
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Summary
Want to submit questions? Email us at [email protected] - In this raw episode of Lights On, Carl and Laura tackle a question that arrived in their inbox and it's one millions of women are silently asking: What happened to me? The answer will challenge everything you think you know about marriage, identity, and what it really means to put others first. Drawing from 23 years of marriage and their own journey of rebuilding after Laura lost herself in the role of "first responder" to their family, Carl and Laura expose an uncomfortable truth: many women haven't lost their voice. They've learned it wasn't safe to use it. And that quiet disappearance is destroying more marriages than any loud fight ever could. Laura shares the moment everything shifted, standing on a beach telling Carl she was done waiting for him to change. Carl delivers the hard truth most husbands avoid: if you say you want a strong wife but shut her down when she speaks, you don't want a partner. You want a convenience. From rethinking what it means to put others first, to the three questions that reveal whether you're actually growing, to the warning label every husband needs before saying he wants an empowered wife, this episode delivers practical truths for couples who want both people to thrive. This episode will challenge any marriage that's been running on one person's dreams while the other quietly disappears. ----- Follow Carl at: https://www.instagram.com/carllentz/ Follow Laura at: https://www.instagram.com/lauralentz/ Supported by Plana https://plana.org/ Supported by God Behind Bars https://godbehindbars.com ----- CHAPTERS: 00:00 The Question That Broke Us Open 02:41 The Cocktail That Makes Women Disappear 06:13 Empowered Woman First, Wife And Mother Flows From It 09:00 The Beach Moment…