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EP 664: Hot Take: Soulmates don't exist, Closure is a lie and Monogamy isn't Boring
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- Jun 29, 2026
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Summary
We need to talk about what you actually believe about love. Not what you think you believe, what's quietly running the show underneath all of it. Because I've watched so many women do the work, read the books, listen to all the podcasts (maybe even this one), and still stay stuck. And a lot of the time? It comes down to the beliefs they've never once questioned. After a decade of doing this work, coaching hundreds of women, and being in my own healthy marriage, I'm sharing the five relationship beliefs I'm doubling down on, even the ones that are going to make some of you want to unfollow me. I'm okay with that. Inside this episode: Why your soulmate doesn't exist yet and why that's actually the best news you've ever heard The real reason codependency is repelling the love you want (and what's magnetic instead) Why closure is a lie you've been telling yourself and how to finally give it to yourself What monogamy and the spark actually have in common — and why you're probably blaming the wrong thing The cultural narrative about men that I think is quietly working against your healing Some of these will land. Some might sting a little. All of them are things I wish someone had said to me years ago, before I spent way too long holding onto beliefs that were keeping me stuck in the same painful patterns. Come with an open mind and let's get into it. 🔗 Apply to the Empowered. Secure. Loved. Program 6.0 today! 🔗 Additional Episode Links: Grab your Instant Access to My Private Podcast: Secure.Soft.Magnetic Private Podcast Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quiz Follow me on IG → @drmorgancoaching Grab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet