Episode

How to Date Like You Don't Need Him to Choose You

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Healing Anxious Attachment
Published
Aug 16, 2026
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732
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Summary

Getting a man who's willing to commit isn't about being more available, liking what he likes, or being "perfect." It's the opposite. In this episode: slowing down instead of rushing in, asking yourself how does this make me feel, paying attention to his communication and choices, and keeping your options open. Because staying in your power starts with staying with yourself first. Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love. Live workshop monthly Live Q&A monthly Access the 21 day Nervous System Reset Path 50+ somatic exercises -and more! First 7 Days Free >> Join Us