Episode
Finally Dating a Good Guy but Feeling Anxious
- Podcast
- Healing Anxious Attachment
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- Nov 12, 2025
- Duration seconds
- 1974
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Summary
In this episode, we explore what happens when you finally meet a good, emotionally available man, but your anxious attachment starts to panic. We talk about why healthy love can feel unsafe when you’re used to chaos, inconsistency, or having to prove your worth in relationships. You’ll learn how to recognize when your nervous system is reacting to safety as unfamiliar, and how to start soothing that part of you that expects love to be hard. This conversation also touches on the difference between genuine connection and emotional intensity, and how to stay grounded when you want to run, overthink, or self-sabotage. Enjoy this episode 🙏🏼. Go Deeper into you Inner Work Journey Join the Becoming Secure women’s membership to learn how to use somatic practices and inner work to heal anxious attachment 🧡 30+ guided somatic practices 2 live calls a month Individualized coaching from Johanna learn more here 💐 Mentioned in this episode: 🧡 Workshop Sun, July 5th 11am ET inside Becoming Her ✨ 👉🏼 Join me for Secure & Self-Assured https://www.skool.com/healing-anxious-attachment/about Embodied confidence that isn’t dependent on outcomes, praise, or proving. Expect practices that strengthen inner stability, self-trust, and the ability to express who you are without over-explaining or over-functioning.