Episode
"I'm So Tired Of Being Told To Give Up On Love"
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- Find Love With Emily
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- Sep 12, 2026
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- 1095
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Summary
If you’re a single woman dating in your 30s, 40s or 50s, you’ve probably noticed just how much negativity there is around dating, men and finding love. Dating apps are awful. Men only want sex. Romance is dead. Finding a good man after 30 is impossible. It's EVERYWHERE. And if you want to find love, you need to start noticing how much of it you’re letting into your world. In this episode of Find Love With Emily, I’m talking about the negativity that surrounds single women who want a relationship, from being made to feel like you shouldn’t want a man at all, to the endless stream of stories telling you how terrible modern dating has become. It's not that you have to pretend every dating experience is wonderful or ignore the disappointment when something doesn’t work out. But there’s a HUGE difference between feeling it, moving through it and getting back to love… and making all that negativity your home and therefore the story you keep living. I’ll show you how to start getting out of the “dating is shit and men suck” story, get clear on what you actually want to experience with men and dating, and surround yourself with more of THAT instead. Because love follows love. And where you put your energy, attention and focus matters. In this episode you'll discover: Why wanting a relationship doesn’t make you any less smart, successful or independent How other people’s opinions can make you question your desire for love Why negativity about men and dating can keep you stuck in experiences you don’t want How social media can quietly reinforce the belief that dating is awful What to focus on instead if you want to meet kind, genuine and emotionally mature men Why women inside AYM often find themselves naturally stepping away from negative conversations about dating How to move…