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396: Why your wife doesn't want to have sex with you (anymore) (ft. Jason Lange)

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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women
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Jan 16, 2026
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Summary

Do any of these apply to you?: You used to have a good sex life with your partner, but now it has flatlined You're in a sexless marriage but at a loss with respect to how to even bring this up with your woman (or you've tried in the past and it went poorly) You fear never having passionate, connected sex again --- These are all common patterns we see in our practice. Here we outline the 5 most common reasons we've seen for this pattern, and some stories of men who've done the work and now have vibrant, thriving sex lives. Passion is possible! --- Work with us Ready to go deeper than the podcast and take action? Jason and I can help you break old patterns and transform your sex & love life for good. To see if you're a fit for our flagship program, Pillars of Presence, book a call here . Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/) --- Mentioned on this episode: DM 222 : Are you using your woman for sex? DM 217 : When sex is about more than just the sex DM 358 : Do you trust men? DM 103 : Reverse polarity can kill your sex life as a couple -- you need to know about this DM 262 : Are you lonely? DM 1 : What if sex hurts for your partner or she doesn't want it? A woman opens up about her experience --- Memorable quotes from this episode: “Your relationship is flat.” “I’m gonna ask in a way I can’t be rejected.” “‘I tend to wait for the signal.’” “I’ve neglected my partner before.” “For a lot of guys, ejaculation is how they deal with tension in their bodies.” “One of the most painful ways we’ve seen this show up is when this wasn’t clear when they got married.” “'I want to feel your desire to be close to me, to know my heart, to know my feelings.'” “This is her strongest aphrodisiac!” “I’m getting off all the feelings I don’t want to feel.” “It’s not so much what w…