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E:91: After My Divorce, God Showed Me How I Was Harming My Children
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- Apr 29, 2026
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Ready to break the cycle — for you and for them? Apply for coaching → coachkatieanne.com/call I spent years believing I was protecting my children by staying in my marriage. I knew what divorce had cost me as a child, so staying felt like love. What I didn't understand is that a high-conflict intact home creates the same wounds in children as a high-conflict divorce. The structure doesn't protect them. What lives inside the people running it does. In this episode, I share the moment my daughter said seven words that collapsed everything I believed about why I had stayed. And I walk through what God showed me in Deuteronomy and Hebrews about what we actually pass to our children — and what it takes to break the cycle. This is not an episode about whether you should have left. It is about what you do now. This is not to promote or encourage divorce, but to remind those who have already walked through it that their circumstance is not the only factor to determine the emotional well-being of their children. God can redeem anything, and if you are struggling to heal post divorce, or concerned about the impact it is having on your children, this episode is for you Scripture Anchor: Deuteronomy 6:5-7 · Hebrews 12:10-11 Apply for coaching: coachkatieanne.com/call If this helped you, subscribe and leave a review. It helps more women find this work. Chapter Markers 0:00 — You can be the most intentional mother and still pass the wound forward 0:38 — Welcome 1:15 — Growing up in a home full of love and unhealed pain 3:00 — What the research shows about high-conflict intact homes 4:30 — The pictures of my babies — and what I saw in their faces 6:00 — Seven words my daughter said that changed everything 7:30 — What 1 Peter 3 says and what it cannot account for 9:00 — Deuteronomy 6:…