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Early Retirement Taught Me That We’ve All Been Sold a Lie
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- AsianDadEnergy's Podcast
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- Aug 28, 2026
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Summary
Nine months ago, I was laid off from my Big Tech job. After 25 years in the technology industry, I suddenly found myself outside the machine I had spent most of my adult life helping to operate. I call it involuntary early retirement . And I know how fortunate I am. I had spent years working in well-paid technology jobs, saving aggressively and investing. That eventually gave me financial independence, the ability to pay for my life without needing a traditional paycheck. So when the layoff came, I didn’t have to immediately scramble for another job. Instead, something strange happened. I got something most people spend their entire lives chasing: I got my time back. And with that time came a perspective I never had while I was working. For the first time, I was able to step outside the flow of normal life and actually watch it. And from that vantage point, I’ve started to wonder whether many of the things we’ve been taught about how to live are fundamentally wrong. Maybe we’ve been sold a pack of lies. Not necessarily by some evil mastermind sitting in a dark room plotting against us. Rather, these are ideas that have been passed down through families, schools, workplaces, media, and culture for generations. Ideas that seem so normal that we rarely stop to question them. Here are four of them. Lie #1: Compliance Will Keep You Safe Most of us are trained to comply from the moment we’re children. Get good grades. Listen to your parents. Get into the right school. Get a good job. Show up on time. Work hard. Follow the rules. Don’t cause trouble. I grew up in a fairly traditional East Asian family, and this conditioning was particularly obvious. Approval was often earned through obedience. Do what you’re supposed to do, and you are rewarded. Go against the expectations of…