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When Big Donors Push Back: Navigating Ethics in Your Capital Campaign
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- May 12, 2026
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Summary
What do you do when your biggest donor wants to fund something that isn’t in your campaign plan? Or when a wealthy prospect makes you uneasy but you can’t quite explain why? These are the kinds of ethical gray areas that surface in nearly every capital campaign—and most organizations aren’t prepared for them. In this episode of All About Capital Campaigns , Andrea Kihlstedt and Amy Eisenstein tackled the uncomfortable but essential topic of fundraising ethics. Prompted by the ongoing Epstein revelations—where major institutional leaders maintained relationships with a known bad actor long after red flags surfaced—the conversation expanded into the everyday ethical dilemmas that development directors and nonprofit leaders face during campaigns. The Epstein case is extreme, but the underlying dynamic is common: a donor with deep pockets and wide influence offers access, introductions, and large gifts. When something feels off, the temptation is to look the other way because the money is too important. Andrea and Amy’s message was clear—if you have a feeling in the pit of your stomach, pay attention to it. And more importantly, don’t carry it alone. Surface your concerns to board members, your executive director, or an ethics committee. These decisions should never rest on one person’s shoulders. But ethics in campaigns aren’t always about bad actors. More often, they show up as values conflicts. Andrea and Amy walked through a real scenario from a current client: a private school running a capital campaign received a million-dollar offer from a parent—but only if the money funded a new gymnasium, which wasn’t part of the strategic plan. The gift sounds generous, but accepting it could siphon other donors away from the campaign’s actual priorities, leaving science labs, s…