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EP. 44: Why ADHDers Get Stuck in Paralysis and The Counterintuitive Way Out
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- ADHD with Jenna Free
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- Jan 26, 2026
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Summary
Pre-order "The Simple Guide to ADHD Regulation" - linktr.ee/adhdwithjennafree ADHD Regulation Groups are now open! - www.adhdwithjennafree.com/groups You can get your free ADHD Regulation Guide here - www.adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdguide Chapters 00:00 Introduction & Physical Regulation Moment 01:00 What is ADHD Paralysis? The Traditional View 02:00 The Missing Piece: Fight or Flight 03:00 Executive Dysfunction vs. Dysregulation 04:00 Jenna's Personal Experience with Paralysis 06:00 Understanding the Freeze Response 08:00 Why Forcing Yourself Makes It Worse 11:00 The Alternative: Getting Your Foot Off the Brake 12:00 The Power of "Slow and Steady Wins the Race" 14:00 Practical Steps for Paralysis Moments 16:00 The Overwhelm-Paralysis Pipeline 18:00 Beliefs That Changed Everything Summary In this episode, I talk about ADHD paralysis and why the mainstream understanding is missing a huge piece. The traditional view says paralysis stems from executive dysfunction, but here's the problem: it doesn't account for the fact that most ADHDers are also in fight or flight. We're dysregulated. When we're in fight-flight-freeze-fawn, so many symptoms of ADHD and dysregulation overlap that we can't tell what's coming from where. The mainstream message assumes it's all coming from your ADHD brain, but my perspective is that yes, we have an ADHD brain and that kicked us into fight or flight - but now so much of what we're dealing with is actually the dysregulation, not the ADHD itself. This is amazing news because you can get out of dysregulation. I share my personal experience: since focusing almost solely on regulation, I haven't experienced paralysis in a year and a half. I break down what's happening in the freeze response - physical symptoms like muscle tension and fatigue, psycho…